ok well my best friend has a boyfriend and he got expelled from school for catching a trashcan on fire and now she realized that she doesnt really like him..BUT shes scared to break up with him because shes scared that he will come set her house on fire or kill her. [stupid ik but keep reading] and theres this OTHER guy at our scho\ol and he was telling her what he would do if they were in a room together and they were both single and he wouldnt tell anyone what they did. and so he was telling her all this stuff and now she likes him and she doesnt know what to do..any suggestions? <333333
2007-02-21 08:22:01 · 17 answers · asked by savannah♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh And She Told Me To Post It. And She Really Needs Adive.. <333333
2007-02-21 08:25:15 · update #1
And This is NOT About Me..I Have A BF That Ive Had For About 4 Months Now..And Shes WHITE! And In The 7th Grade.
2007-02-21 08:29:58 · update #2
Oh And Shes Scared To Be With Him ALONE Because Of The Things He Tells Her On The Phone..Since They Started Going Out [A Month Ago] They Havent Seen Eachother.
2007-02-21 08:41:04 · update #3
She needs to avoid both of them.
2007-02-21 08:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by JB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that's your story, then I suggest you spend a little more time in English class learning about writing sentences, and worrying less about other people's problems. If she is too stupid to realize that a guy who gets expelled is wrong, AND that a guy she isn't even with is telling what he is going to do to her in private, well then this girl is going to end up as just another statistic. She will be pregnant within 3 months, and her life and reputation will be ruined forever. If SHE is your best friend, then you are probably in for the same experience.
2007-02-21 08:28:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing i know for sure is that he wouldn't go murdering people just because she broke up with him. What about telling a little white lie(she might not even have to at all really) and say that her mom doesn't want her with somebody that sets things on fire or gets expelled and that her mom told her to find somebody else.
2007-02-21 08:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by Krystiana K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get an adult to help intervene with her breaking up with this guy, even though it seems as though he clearly has some issues. A CHILD (that's what he is, clearly immature) that will set trash cans on fire, and give her reason to wonder if he will set her house on fire, needs some help, but furthermore, she needs to get out of that situation. And second of all, please find someone that will reassure her, that just because a guy essentially offers to f%$# you, doesnt make him good "boyfriend" material. This best friend of yours clearly has some self-esteem issues she needs to work thru in order to accuretly pick a boyfriend that is not out to use her, or is not a HEATHEN.
Get her some help please. And possibly yourself, seeing as bestfriends normally think alike.
2007-02-21 08:31:36 · answer #4 · answered by it'sjustme79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is expelled obviously the police know of this person so she needs to break it off with Mr Not Right. As far as the other guy, I wouldn't jump into a dark room and let hands wander wherever they please but take the other person to the next level. Get to know him, make sure he's the one that this person is willing to be with and not just to be used. Good luck !!!
2007-02-21 08:26:12 · answer #5 · answered by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK well she's hanging out with ALL the wrong people
but don't throw away your friendship trying to help just take it slow help her break up with this bozo she'd with now and let her decide but just keep a close eye on everything and if it gets out of your control get some one who can help
2007-02-21 08:29:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um well it seems this guy is a little DANGEROUS. The best thing to do is have them go together to a place were there are a lot of pretty girls and maby he will fall 4 one of them, if all else fails, watch How To Lose A Guy In Ten Days and use some ideas from there. if you cant then try to annoy him like calling him and telling him everything you had to eat that day. i hope it works!
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2007-02-21 08:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by Bella baby! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best advise to give your friend is stay away from the boy that she's beginning to like, and tell her to tell her parents about this boy she's so worried, but you shouldn't get to involved because you could also put yourself in a harmful situation.
2007-02-21 08:29:25 · answer #8 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her figure it out for herself. She needs to be straightforward and let this person know that its over. That stuff about what her and some guy would do alone in her room is very weird, and it sounds like she only likes him for sex. Thats what it sounds like, unless you would like to clarify it for me.
2007-02-21 08:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by Donovan G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay away from that situation. You could become one of those sad statistics of people getting hurt or killed because they shouldn't have intervened in the first place.
2007-02-21 08:25:36 · answer #10 · answered by Cdub 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just curious what race is your friend? It depends if this is a cultural thing or out of character for your race. We need to be sensative to these things.
2007-02-21 08:25:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋