So i know this girl and we are sorta boyfriend/girlfriend but it's like not official or anything. I like her and she likes me, but i feel sorta uncomfortable having her as my girlfriend. It seems like I have commitment issues or something because this sorta thing has happened before and I feel really awkward when I find out the girl likes me and i like her, cause part of me is like really happy and the other feels all weird.
It's like i'm ashamed of her or something. I don't know why, but it's like I know her too well and i can't deal with the responsibility and it's like killing me. I know how to be a good boyfriend but I don't know why I feel so uncomfortable. Sometimes i wish i was still single.
Why do i feel like this and how can I change it?
2007-02-21 07:54:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel weird about yout relashonship, then I would say its not working out and just stay single for awhile. A couple days ago I had i boyfriend and he really liked me and I didnt know if I should stay with him. So I went up to my mother for imfermation. She said if I feel weird just break up and stay single for awhile. I'm only 11 and I still go up mother for information.
2007-02-21 08:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well think of the good things about being single then think of the good things about dating.......... Well that part is up to you and then think of the bad things then you pick which one is right 4 you!
2007-02-21 08:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by Hollisterbebe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are not ready for a committed relationship. If you are not ready to be with her, dont because you will wind up hurting her, also, if you like her and she likes you, dont sleep with her if you dont want to be in a relationship. It will only hurt the both of you.
2007-02-21 07:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by jkeys00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well gosh golly darn aren't we like sorta sweet. Just like sorta move on.
2007-02-21 07:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like you are afraid of intimacy and getting too close. You are afraid of the real you and getting rejected probably.
2007-02-21 07:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by beans90000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you ashamed of her? What is she doing or has done that makes you embarrased?
2007-02-21 07:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE please if U want to be single BE SINGLE just explain it to her she'll understand AND if she doesn't and starts ballen then just leave her
2007-02-21 08:02:52 · answer #7 · answered by drakos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋