I really like this boy. Should i change myself so he notices me or just forget about him, even though i really like him and i have liked him for almost a year now. I just don't get why he doesn't notice me even though i am in almost every single one of his classes.
2007-02-21 07:52:27 · 12 answers · asked by felicia. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd say don't do stuff out of the ordinary to get noticed by him like: talking loud, wearing skimpy clothes, putting on too much make up.Stuff like that.Maybe you should talk to him, fill him out.He probably does notice you maybe he doesn't think you notice him be yourself.(I went through a situation like this once, come to find out he really liked me and asked his friend to ask me for my number when he was the one who really wanted it) Just because he ignores you doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't like you.Maybe you should try talking to him and not waiting for him to talk to you.
2007-02-21 08:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't change yourself to be with a guy. You need to be yourself. I once met a man, that wanted me to change for him, big time. He wanted me to go blonde. (I am a natural redhead). He wanted me to wear super short skirts and tight tops all the time. I am 34, not 24. I told him I am not going to change for him. I told him that I am going to be myself, and if he doesn't like it then move on. There are other guys that will like you for yourself. I know it's hard in school, you are faced with peer pressure and all that. The best way is to be yourself, someone will notice you eventually. Nothing worst than acting and not being your true self.
2007-02-21 16:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably does, he just doesn't show it! Don't change because of him, but get him to notice you by talking to him. Maybe ask if he'll tutor you in a certain class that he's good at. Be outgoing
2007-02-21 15:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by The Guys Call me Rish... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you change yourself? Then you wouldn't be you! Why not start a conversation with him? It could be about your homework...If you change yourself and he notices you, would it really be you that he liked or who you are pretending to be? Pretending takes a lot of time and energy anyway. You've got to be honest and be you. Life will be a lot easier and rewarding that way!
2007-02-21 16:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by tlc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never change for a guy that doesn't even notice u. i say wait for the right guy to come along for what u look like and not who u pretend to be.
2007-02-21 16:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to answer this question for you. It sounds like your in jr.high or high school. Please don't change for this guy. It would be the wrong thing. By changing for him you are hiding yourself and that will lead you down a path of unhappiness. Trust me I've been down that path and it took me longer to find my true self
2007-02-21 16:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you need to go speak to him and tell him how you feel about him. But be ready in case he just likes you as a friend. SO ask him and get it over with.
2007-02-21 16:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. He might just be not noticing you because he is embarresed, and feels that you might not like him. Thats my problem right now,
2007-02-21 16:49:54 · answer #8 · answered by Theoretically Speaking 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicate with him. this is key first you must discover if he likes you or not if he does then it's all up to you to pursue him =) and of course you should never change yourself unless you want to, but you should only do it for yourself not anyone else.
2007-02-21 15:56:49 · answer #9 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never change yourself for someone else. Go up to him and ask him out.
2007-02-21 15:56:43 · answer #10 · answered by greysgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋