Well,I' m 15 years old and I'm in love with a girl a year older than me.She likes a guy,who is 3 years older than me..I'm dying for her!What to do?Please help me!!!!!Please!!!I'm thinking very seriously of suicide if i don't have a relationship with me.....I need H-E-L-P !-!-!-!-!-!-!
2007-02-21 07:42:46 · 10 answers · asked by AvAvAv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First to address the Suicide...DONT DO IT! That will not solve anything. I know how you are felling because I am 17 and have gone mad with love for this girl I met in my class who has a boyfriend that is a sophmore in college (we are seniors).
What I have been doing is hanging out with her as much as I could so that I dont do anything stupid (ex: suicide). Right now I am trying to figure out myself what I am going to do.
Just be her friend and just show her that you are always there for her and spend as much time with her as you can. Give her hints that you like her like saying she looks beautiful in that dress or when she says she feels dumb tell her that she is smarter then you (if you are a nerd and this is true).
Your best chance to make a move is when she is having trouble with her boyfriend. It may feel underhanded but all you have to do is ask her to lunch and then sometime mention that you love her. Then you will have it out in the open and things will be eisier to either date her or get over her. Be sure to tell her that if she does not want to be more then friends right now that you would rather remain freinds then lose her because otherwise she may avoid you. FYI: I have not done this yet with the one I am in love with but I plan to. I missed my chance because I was too scared and was not sure how she felt. It is better to suffer some humiliation then to hold this inside of you forever.
Please e-mail me telling me how things end up. I will help you out more if you need it but I dont want to make this answer any longer.
2007-02-21 08:10:15 · answer #1 · answered by nproe2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah suicide is not the answer-truth is...if you dont have a real relashionship with her now-its not love..its an infatuation & you'll have a lot more of those. They suck and if you dont get the person it seems horrible...if you do you "think" they are the one you want forever but it turns into a short 6 month relashionship. But you should tell her how you feel..just because you are younger doesnt mean anything there are alot of girls who may like you but are just embarrassed cuz ur younger. Tell her how you feel-it she feels the same way your major crush could turn into a love relashionship.if not it may seem bad...but not bad enough to kill yourself...fate will always do what it* wants...you may find someone else and have something 10 times better :) Good luck
2007-02-21 07:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by moi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I' m 15 years old and I'm in love with a girl a year older than me.What to do?Please help me!!!!!?
Well,I' m 15 years old and I'm in love with a girl a year older than me.She likes a guy,who is 3 years older than me..I'm dying for her!What to do?Please help me!!!!!Please!!!I'm thinking very seriously of suicide if i don't have a relationship with me.....I need H-E-L-P...
2015-08-23 08:59:27 · answer #3 · answered by Richmond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tall her how she feels about you.
Don't commit suicide that's not the answer your put here on earth to live life to the fullest so age doesn't matter as long as you don't act like you 10 she'd probably like you some time even if its now or 3 years from now. but hey, once the ladies get older i bet they would want a younger man in there life with alot of energy and charisma!
2007-02-21 07:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by [.:KiMBEE:.] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT go to suicide. I've been down that road, life sux emo outlook, yeah. I really like a guy that's a few years younger than me. Girls don't always care about age. She may like someone else, but she might like you more but not be showing it because she's afraid you don't like her. I would talk to her, or somebody. You can't keep it bottled up. If you need someone to talk to you can email me or send me a note, I'll listen and try to help you out. Believe me, I'm 16, I know what you're going through
2007-02-21 07:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by The Guys Call me Rish... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do that. just go up to her and talk to her and see if u 2 can hang out some time. start out as friends then work ur way from there. good luck honey. if u need any help email me at snugglebuge2@yahoo.com
2007-02-21 07:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont commit suicide!!!! U cant over a girl.. Why dont u try telling the girl how u feel and then if she isnt interested find somone else.
2007-02-21 07:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by Megan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
woah dude u need to calm down!!!!!! its not that serious. i think u should tell her how u feel. and if she treats u mean and like a reject then u kno 4 a fact that shes not right 4 u.
2007-02-21 07:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by Jana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her. ask her out. dont commit suicide. trust me she's not worth committing suicide
2007-02-21 07:47:29 · answer #9 · answered by ~lipgloss barbie doll~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suicide? well i would say ask her but if she said no and u did kill yourself i would feel so bad. so just keep stalking her and plz dont kill yourself...........................
2007-02-21 07:55:38 · answer #10 · answered by King Drew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋