What do you think?

Question

I really like this girl who is 18. I am going to see her in the summer. She lives in England an just recently went back from being here a month. We got to know eachother pretty well and always had alot of fun together. She wanted me to be there when she left and she hugged and kissed me and said see you in the summer. Which I did not expect because we really did just meet a month ago. What do I do when I see her again? I was thinking of just doing what we did here and talk and I was also thinking about mentioning that I might want to go to England and see what she says. Maybe she will say to come stay with her where she lives. Im not sure really on what to do because after the summer then I really might never have a chance to see her for a long time. What do you think?

Answer 1

I say go for it! Continue to treat her as you did when you were together. If she's only 18, she probably won't ask you to come live with her or anything, but you can definitely continue your relationship. With a little dedication, it can work out; trust me.

Answer 2

Whooaaa! Take a deep breath! Please take one step at a time. Wait and see if you actually do see her this summer (she may have just said that in a "see you later" way, without any further meaning behind it). If you do see her this summer, just see what develops. If you start planning trips across the big pond based on knowing this girl (not that well) for one month and you start discussing these plans with her - well, be prepared to scare this girl right out of your life. That is too much pressure to put on her, and too much pressure to put on yourself. Believe me, I know from experience that when you start making plans in your head based on "what ifs" you are sure to be disappointed when they don't happen!

I'm not saying things could not work out the way you want them to, I'm just saying RELAX! Let things develop the way they are supposed to!

If you can get an email address or phone #, try to keep in contact throughout the absence!
Good luck, my friend!

Answer 3

wait and see what happens after her next visit in the summer. if all goes well tell her you would like to come see her sometime in her country. it is to early to make plans just of yet. and that is way to long of a distance to have an exclusive relationship. you really don't know her. she could be in a relationship there as well. meantime go on with your life and when summer comes if you have not found someone else then enjoy the time with your new friend.

Answer 4

if you don't know if you'll ever be back, then you might just want to call it a wonderful experience that you had. I mean, don't dwell on it too much because you may never see her again, or if you do things may be different. just be happy for the awesome time you guys had together. if you do see each other again, take things slow and just become really good friends. unless you both feel really drawn together, then maybe it could be love and you will want to go further.

Answer 5

i think that u should have the most fun u ever had with her. and if u run out of ideas and stuff ur not the only 1 in this friendship. ask her wat she thinks or wat she wants to do. oh 1 more thing. i kno it mgith be hard but try not to like her too much. ( to the point where u wanna start a relationship with her) bcuz jus like u said u might not see her agin and then u'd be heartbroken.

Answer 6

If you think she is worth getting to know, then go see her. Try and learn more about her and talk more. THen you wont wonder "what if?" for the rest of your life

Answer 7

Whatever. Don't see her, see her. Why wouldn't you want to? Spend as much time with her if you like her

Answer 8

well to me it seems like you gguys have something going there.if you really like her then go for it.things will fall into place.(^_^)

Answer 9

No, seems like to much. Forget about her.

Answer 10

go for it