just two months ago we were untouchable and had a sweet and caring relationship. we dated over 4 years but long story short he decided to chose something else over me (NOT another girl, a THING) and we broke up when i gave him an ultimatum unless he decided to change his mind.
i moved out, and we left on good terms. its been a month and im doing okay, im not crying or obsessing over whether or not he is out on dates or anything like that.... the only thing really bugging me is that he doesnt seem to miss me very much. the guy i swore i knew so well would have been calling everyday, showing up at my work, etc. but its like he just doesnt care.
even tho im thankful there is no drama, it makes me feel like what we had wasnt real....my mom always said if a guy really loves you, he will fight for you and do whatever he can to keep you in his life....
is it that he doesnt love me the way i thought he did or do guys just go thru break ups differently?? just curious
2007-02-21 07:31:52 · 4 answers · asked by plenymo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
um im not angry and im far from spazzing....leaving him was the right thing to do....i was only curious, im n ot calling him or begging him to miss me
2007-02-21 07:39:48 · update #1
Different strokes for different folks. This may be his way of getting over you. He may not want to deal with the feelings that he has for you by contacting you. Sometimes a guy needs his space and like your mother said if her truly loves or loved you he will be back. But you have to be careful of what you wish for because if things were bad between you guys maybe it's the best thing for both of you to remain apart for a while.
2007-02-21 07:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone goes through breakups and you shouldnt be angry that he is spazzing as much as you are or that he isnt spazzing at all. Seeing how you gave him an ultimatum and he chose whatever he did..perhaps you both need to see your better off not being together. I guess he got the message sooner than you.
2007-02-21 15:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he is thinking that if he shows that he cares at all it will show weakness on his part. I agree, if he cares he should show it, but not everyone is like that.
Some guys can just turn the emotions on and off at will, but believe me, sometime later down the line, they will regret having that ability.
2007-02-21 15:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they go through them differently im a guy and i just try ever so much to keep friendships with girls i date
2007-02-21 15:38:23 · answer #4 · answered by nintendoboy9009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋