How much can women be trusted in a relationship?

Question

I have seen so many examples of women cheating on their boyfriends, husbands, etc. Women...can you tell me why you cheat, what a guy can do to keep you from wanting to cheat, and how realistic is it to be with a girl who never cheats?

Answer 1

Very realistic. Not all women are cheaters. And if you are untrusting... expect her to and she will.

Answer 2

I've never cheated, but I do have a little input. Guys are who they are. Each has their own personality, and it reflects inside as well as outside of the bedroom. And the simple thinking about sex never changes... much. But, it is important to keep things FRESH! And when I say fresh, go out of your comfort zone and try something different. Check the Internet for ideas or watch naughty videos! One night, try the sweetest love making that you might only read about in books, and the next try something crazy!

Also, show your appreciation, admiration, and affection. But don't lay it on too thick. Do the bad boy thing once in a while. Don't ever over do it though. She needs to feel loved, but not smothered. it's a balancing act, I know, but try stuff out! Games, and notes every once in a while work too. Just shake stuff up a bit.

People who cheat are sleazy anyway. If it's not working, just be honest and get out before you cheat.

Answer 3

I have never cheated...but have dated guys who have cheated on me...that street goes two ways...

if you love her and give her space to have "girl" time w/ her friends, don't breathe down her neck every time she is 2 minutes late, basically just TRUST her...she isn't going to stray...also, make sure you both know what you want in the relationship...make it known when you feel you two are "exclusive"...you never know, she may not have thought that.

As for what is making me want to cheat right now...(even tho I will not - I will just end up getting rid of him) is that the b/f is totally self absorbed...it is all about him...if I start to tell him how my day went, he interrupts w/ something about his day...I put in 8 + hours at work each day (he puts in 6 and drives 20 min each way), drive an hour each way, come home to him sitting on the couch complaining that I am late and he is hungry (apparently the fridge doesn't open if I am not there) - plus he has decided that he doesn't have to shower every day anymore.

Answer 4

well go in the water slowly till u know the depth and if u feel afraid or getting to involved take a few steps back ,becoz hurt is bad and cheating is unevitable sorry all women have wandering eyes its just a matter of time and opportunity or seduction so put yourself always first and when it happens u can just walk out ,women r like monkeys love branch drifting hold one and another and let go

Answer 5

You would have to turn this question around as to why men can't be trusted in a relationship. This is not a gender problem, it's humans all together. I have never cheated and don't ever plan on it.

Answer 6

In my experience I'll give any1 the benefit of the doubt until they start lying and then they are just as good as gone, I'll leave them in a split second (depending on how much malice is concealed on that particular lie). But usually if a woman is honest( this is why it is wise to get to know a woman before hand before entering a relationship with her) from the get go then you should okay.

Answer 7

I wouldn't trust a woman further than I can shoot my wad! They'll spread thier legs for the the next bigger c*ck or fatter wallet to come along. So, I just bang and leave em.

Answer 8

its a proven fact if yer human you will cheat man or women

Answer 9

Women aren't always the cheaters. You men are pretty good at it to.

Answer 10

women can't be trusted,they are a bunch of backstabbers