I'm just curious about what you think about this: a friend of mine told me that she found out her brother, age 19, was kicked out of the home just because her parents does not like his friends. Is that so wrong of them to do that?
2007-02-21 06:43:58 · 11 answers · asked by DayStar 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Being a parent is not easy, you need to balance everything especially when your kids are teenagers and they think that they are always right. Let's remember that children can abandon their parents but parents cannot abandon their children.Maybe they have enough reason to kicked out their child. I think they needed to give him a lesson. It's just my insight though, I think his parents saw something in his friends that they think is a bad influence for their child but their son don't see it that way. As far as I am concern, as a parent I want the best for my children, walking in the Light with the Lord.
2007-02-21 07:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by quelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think for 1 that age 19 it is OK to kick them out. He is a grown adult now and should be moving on anyway. Also I think that there might be more behind that. I am sure a parent would not just say get out because of the friends but maybe what the friends might have done. Maybe they disrespected there stuff or something.
2007-02-21 07:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Nikkee D ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets be honest. Why did the parents not like the friends? Coming from the world of parenting, it might be because the parents see the drugs, alcohol and influence these friends might have over their child. When you live under the partnes roof, you have options, either come to some kind of compromise with the parents or find another place to live. I dont mean it to sound harsh, but parents are caught in situations where they are trying to shock the child into seeing things for what they really are. I found out, when i was in my late 20's, that my parents were not as "dumb" as I thought they were. They saw things about my friends that I could or wouldnt see. Love causes us sometimes to do things that we would rather not do, but we love the child and want what is best for them, and when they rebel and wont accept that, they might need to leave and find what the real world is about.
2007-02-21 06:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by Wayne B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a difference between kicking your offspring out and grounding them... I've known of people who, after 18, have been kicked out of their parents' house because of drug use (by them or their friends) or for dating someone of a diferent race or for a bunch of other reasons. What's he doing living at home at age 19? Shouldn't he be in college or working or something? If parents would just make their kids live on their own after highschool, it'd be a lot simpler. :P
2007-02-21 06:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, let me see, your saying your friend's brother was kicked out of the house because the parents don't like his friends. Hmm, Yes it is very much ok, especially if his friends are not good for him or anybody. He is 19 and should be getting ready to live on his own anyway.
2007-02-21 06:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by omvg1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong to kick a kid out because of his/her friends. If the kid was causing trouble with the firends, that is a different story. A parent has a right to kick someone out if he/she is not following the house rules (especially if the kid is over 18).
2007-02-21 06:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by xoclipox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This boy is grown and he is more then capable of choosing his own friends. His parents are sooo wrong for kicking him. They could just told him not to bring the friend around them if the didn't approve of him.
2007-02-21 08:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 12:25:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Everything I've read says to turn a blind eye to the friends and dress thing as this just fuels their need to do what you don't want them to. But if that person is giving them opportunities that get them in trouble, then maybe. This is vague, but your question is as well.
2007-02-21 09:03:46 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's their home and they should set the rules!
2007-02-21 06:51:40 · answer #10 · answered by dr.dave 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋