i like this girl and she said she likes me too... but because of problems we both have, we havent advanced to the next level yet. she told me a few days ago if she should meet this online friend of hers since that guy has asked to see her in the last while. i heard her mention this guy once or twice in a period of time.. should i ask her more about her and that guy? or should i not ask since im not in her bf? but then what are the ways to find out about them?
2007-02-21 06:39:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if i dont ask... how will i ever find out what she's thinking though?
2007-02-21 06:59:08 · update #1
meeting people online is a risky business - if you want to impress this girl let her know the dangers she could possibly be in by meeting him alone - offer to accompany her - as a buddy - and hope for the best!
Also, the best boyfriends are the ones who are your friends - not just lovers.
2007-02-21 06:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by redneckgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is always so good if you could clear it yourself without depending on words or stories she told you. Ask, be bold, tel her, you ave this in your mind, and if everything is okay with her (do not ask if she likes that other guy), ask her if she is fine...And do not judge on wht she told u. Perhaps she is feeling bad herself revealing too much to you too. She said she likes you, keep it at that. Wait. make her feel goodthat she can depend on you, and that you are trust worthy. Do not propose till she tells u what is in her mind...and take it from there. Since you do have doubts on her being close to this guy whom she mentioned, keep aloof, and yet freindly. Slowly and carefully, if you can handle this, she will tel you all abot it.
Most importantly, if whatever you felt is wrong, or probably not really the way you think, make sure you do be straight forward, and help her forgetthe past...
good luck
2007-02-21 14:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by arya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games. Ask her the extent of her relationship with this guy. Care about yourself to ask. If she is playing both sides of the fence and you are past that point in your life and are looking for a serious commitment with just one person, then, be honest. If she wants to play the field, then, fine...figure out if that is good enough for you.
2007-02-21 14:46:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you get older you realize that you don't like everyone the way they like you and the same goes the other way around. Young people put to much emphasis on how others feel about them. There are a million other guys/girls out there and if he/she does not like you for who you are than that is ok. think about how you would feel if someone asked you out that you did not like, it's ok that you don't feel the same feelings for them, right.
2007-02-21 14:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by april 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should say, I know it's not my business, but I care about you...Tell her she should think about meeting this person from online. He could be a rapist, stalker,etc. If she says you're jealous, tell her it's just an opinion and you don't want anything to happen to her.If you really like her, let her know before it's too late...
2007-02-21 14:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can never be too careful. the whole meeting someone she met online thing is a lil dangerous....we have all heard the stories, so i dont see a problem in asking, but DO NOT be too pushy or she will just think you are jealous
2007-02-21 14:43:24 · answer #6 · answered by **ChArOlEnO** 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If's she talking about another guy to you.... then she's probably not as into you as you are her. Or.... maybe she doesn't know how you feel about her. I'd be honest and let her know that you like her as more than a friend -- but that's just me. You have to be prepared to lose her friendship if she doesn't like you in that way.
2007-02-21 14:47:32 · answer #7 · answered by sophiagrace69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you have to resolve your "problems", because it would tarnish anything you try to do.
Second, ask the lady what is up with this guy because you would like to take her out. A real date beats a "cyber" one any ole day :) Its not the other guy you are worried about, forget about him, you want the lady... RIGHT?
2007-02-21 14:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your 4 SURE that she likes u, and u guys should be 2gether, sit down + just ask her about the relationship, she shouldn't be offended. But if she is, you might wannna check that, cuz that means she has some feelings 4 this guy.
2007-02-21 14:47:52 · answer #9 · answered by raven22229 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, grow a set and ask her out...Online dating never works. and she could be meeting a crazy person..
Go for it...you like her she like you...Be a man and ask this girl on a date, just you and her,,,you will never hear about an internet guy again..
Good luck..
2007-02-21 14:43:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋