Hi I am using my guys screen name but I am female... How do i know If I had an orgasm? It feels great.. how to tell the difference between cumming and orgasm
2007-02-21 06:34:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I too have the same problem.. like I can make my self "***" with my vibrator but i don't get that intensity with sex or even oral sex... believe me it feels awsome.. but i am not sure...Sometimes I get sad because he may feel that I don't love him... but that is not the case .. actually no one has ever made me feel pleasure like i but him... i do CU@ with my vibrator... i need help
2007-02-21 06:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by dimeinga1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Orgasm is the conclusion of the plateau phase of the sexual response cycle, shared by both men and women. During orgasm, both men and women experience quick cycles of muscle contraction in the lower pelvic muscles, which surround both the anus and the primary sexual organs.
Orgasms in both men and women are often associated with other involuntary actions, including vocalizations and muscular spasms in other areas of the body. Also, a generally euphoric sensation is associated with orgasm.
Afterwards, orgasm generally causes perceived tiredness, and both men and women often feel a need to rest.
A human female orgasm is preceded by erection of the clitoris and moistening of the vaginal opening. Some women exhibit a sex flush, a reddening of the skin over much of the body due to increased blood flow to the skin. As a woman comes closer to having an orgasm, the clitoris moves inward under the clitoral hood, and the labia minora (inner lips) become darker. As orgasm becomes imminent, the outer third of the vagina tightens and narrows, while overall the vagina lengthens and dilates and also becomes congested from engorged soft tissue. The uterus then experiences muscular contractions. A woman experiences full orgasm when her uterus, vagina, anus, and pelvic muscles undergo a series of rhythmic contractions. The majority of women consider these contractions to be very pleasurable, although not all sexually active women experience this.
2007-02-21 06:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by dragonsong 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are the same. you will know. An orgasm is a spasm of your vaginal muscles where fluids (***) are then present, that will make your body react in some ways that you sometimes can't even control. You will know when you have one. And yes it is an awesome feeling that ypu will than want to repeat as often as possible. If you are with the right person both parties bodies will almost intertwine in motion and the orgasm will be simultaneous.
2007-02-21 06:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cumming and orgasm are the same thing. If you are seeing stars and the earth moves you are there! There is no other feeling in the world. If you needed to ask maybe you should do some reading on the subject. There are lots of books out there on the subject.
2007-02-21 06:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by bramblerock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um......the word "cumming" refers to orgasm.....not just being aroused and lubricating, which It sounds like you are confused with. ANd believe me, an orgasm isnt something you think you might have had....its a huge feeling, an explosion. Feeling blissfully good during sex is wonderful, but not an orgasm. The orgasm is short, seconds long, and you will know it when it hits you, BELIEVE ME.
2007-02-21 06:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by AZrunner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only from the mouth of a man would the phrase 'they are the same' come from. No they are not the same, at all....when you orgasm...believe me, you WILL know. Takes time for some woman, and a good man to do it. I was 40 before I had my first.
2007-02-21 06:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by brazenone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of the above are true, except for the fact that there are many women who have had small orgasms, just have not been able to recognize them, focus in, realize what it is that makes them climax, and then get that from their partner (or do it themselves). So, yes, you'll likely know, but listen to your body -- try masturbation to really get in touch with it (no pun intended).
2007-02-21 06:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by Perdendosi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd know, if you'd had an orgasm or not. Cumming and orgasm are both the same
2007-02-21 06:38:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What, are you 12?
2007-02-21 06:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The difference between them? Nothing; they're both the same.
That said there are varying degrees of intensity.
Basically, yeah; you'll know.
2007-02-21 06:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by Slimslimmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋