Why is he playing games with me?
There's a guy at work who told me I was too weird for him to be friends with since I was sending him mixed signals about getting with him. The reason I was wavering was because he has a fiancee. I know this because last year I helped him get the engagement ring for her. The thing is she is in another country. Anyway to make the long story short, he asked me to stop texting or emailing him. He even told me he changed his cell phone number, I haven't tried calling him or emailing him and I asked him why can't just say hi at work. He told me I was too weird to be his friend and that are no hard feelings between us and I should get therapy. I don't think I'm crazy or weird, and people at work are being extra nice which bothers me. One day, I was gone from my desk to go downstairs and he was by my desk, but was kind of hiding since he was packing a box of books really fast. Today, I happened to see him flirting with another girl, he knew I saw him and looked over at me.
2007-02-21 06:31:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just don't pay him no mind he sounds like the weird one anyway. just go and find someone who is worth occupying your time because he sure isn't.
2007-02-21 06:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by Juliaysha247 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Expand your social circle and look for men outside of work to date. The work place is not for conducting your social life. It is unprofessional and can create a lot of grief in the office and you will have no choice but to sit through it and suffer.
Why are you being obsessive about this man? If he went as far as changing his number, I think it's safe to say he's not into you. You should move on and stop stalking him.
2007-02-21 06:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a player. I'd get video of him flirting with the other girls and send it to his fiancee. Don't get involved with a nimrod like this. He's probably blowing you off because he knows it will make you more attracted to him. Once you're attracted then he'll pounce when you're at your weakest (Like drunk at a party or feeling vulnerable).
2007-02-21 06:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by albion53151 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This man is trying to project his guilt on to you, so he doesn't have to feel responsible for his actions. Don't consider even trying to be his friend. He is making you feel bad and doubt who and what you are really about. Avoid him and do not allow him to continue. You deserve a better friend than that and he doesn't.
2007-02-21 06:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw this guy he sounds like a jerk. I would not waist anymore time worrying what this guy thinks about you. I sure as hell would not call him or ever give him the time of day again. Move on girl he is a loser don't worry about him any more.
2007-02-21 06:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm...what?
Why do you want to be with a guy with a fiancee and would obviously cheat?
I don't think you're crazy; you may be one can short of a 6-pack, however...
2007-02-21 06:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by Slimslimmer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your best bet is to move on and move him out of your life, what he is doing is a power trip and guys like that are your worst night mare. Trust me on this one if you pursue this he will make you out to be the craziest obsessive person around him.
2007-02-21 06:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you both are awkward towards each other bcos you both like each other and at the same time you both know its impossible bet you two.and he is obviously scared of cheating his girl. i say you shld back off a lil.and ignore him.i mean, stop noticing him caring where he is...soon, he'll want to be friends wif you again.
2007-02-21 06:44:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE is playing no games.........he told you straight forward that he doesn't want a relationship with you.....is that too difficult to accept??
2007-02-21 06:36:41 · answer #9 · answered by Mark N 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you BOTH seem weird
I'm not trying to be mean, I'm being honest
2007-02-21 06:35:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋