*he has hit me
*he lied A LOT
*he lead (pastense) girls on
*he asked me to marry him
*he says hes changed (he hasnot said this before)
2007-02-21 06:24:55 · 15 answers · asked by evwetherell07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't even consider being with a guy that hit me! And, if he's lied alot, how would you ever be able to trust him? Sounds like he just doesn't want to lose a good thing, someone who will put up with his ****! Move on to someone who knows how to treat you!
2007-02-21 06:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already answered that question. How many times in the pas has he said that he would change , he loves you etc only to do some of the same old things? To be honest if he has already hit you in the past then you need to run away as fast as you can. I work in the field dealing with women who have been abused by their man and I tell you if he had enough balls to hit you once he'll do it again. You can't continue to put yourself in situations that only lead to heartache and pain. I say let him go and find someone that will love you the way that you deserve to be loved because it's obvious that he does not love you if he hits or has hit you.
2007-02-21 06:32:17 · answer #2 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has hit you, lied, and did all these other things to you then NO you are wayyyyy better than this treatment he has given you, and u deserve RESPECT even thou he said he have change tell him you are happy for him but he is not the one for you if he really loved you and wated to be with you from the begining he should of known how much you mean to him. Raging out on someone is not love, the very first sign of abuse is when he shouts at you, or raises his hand like he is going to hit you but don't...all this is abuse. Tell him have a nice life and treat others the way he would want to be treated. ( U R better than a second chance round for him to mention he have changed).
2007-02-21 06:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by Dimples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't even need to read anymore after I saw that he hits you. A man is physically stronger than a woman. I think you already know your answer. He hit you, he lied, he led girls on...etc. It's not a good idea to go back into a relationship with him, so my answer is NO. If he really cared about you, he wouldn't've done any of those things.
2007-02-21 06:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything he has done 2 u is unaceptable n there is no excuse 4 it. no one shuld hav 2 go trought tht. however mayb he rly has changed but the decision is up 2 u. just follow ur hart. if u think he may do it 2 u again then get out of there sharpish. but if u feel u need to be with him and u rly believe hes changed then go 4 it but be careful and dont be pressured into anything by him. u shuld also tell him that its his last chance. gd luck
2007-02-21 06:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by minxi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say please don't continue being with him! It is not worth it to be with a type of guy like that, especially when he lied and hit you a lot. If you married him, would you be able to deal with all the lies and abuse for 10 years? Think about it Girl.
Go find a guy who makes you feel happy and makes you feel more like yourself. It's not good to be with someone whom you feel you have to be somebody that you're not. I'm sure you would wanted to be with a guy who's being himself, being who he is.
2007-02-21 06:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by DayStar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hear alot of flaws in this guy. I don't see any actions, he hit you, he lies, and flirts, he want to marry you because you are a good catch. He has requested counsling or confessed at church, Action speak louder than words. U need to find somone on you level, and dump him.
2007-02-21 06:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by MsTruthful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he has "said" a lot of things right? How's he acting? Action speak louder than words. If he has changed you'd see it everyday. If he has a history of lying and stringing girls on, you got to be very careful. Don't make any decisions until he proves it.
2007-02-21 06:30:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have heard that 100 times. He may change but it won't last long. I would move on without him.
2007-02-21 06:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally believe in 2nd chances but only u can be the judge of this nobodyelse is in ur shoes..its crazy but i been thru this and im still with him and things have been great...u have to ask urself "can i trust him"?
2007-02-21 06:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋