Is the guy a confused jerk?

Question

A guy at work seems attracted to me. I don't want to ask him coz I don't have feelings 4 him. He told my colleagues he's married but he look at me a lot and says hi to me and teases me. I'm not sure whether he likes me or hates me.

Answer 1

Sounds like he likes you not hate you. If he teases you, says hi, looks at you, definitely likes you. But damn, hes married, that makes him such a jerk. Just be casual with him, hes just another guy that works with you, that way he will get the point and stop flirting with girls who are not his wife!!!

Answer 2

Yeah, I wouldn't rock that boat even a little bit. Don't talk to him about it (or behind his back either), just let it go. He is probably just trying to have fun in the office--I doubt he is looking for an affair--married guys are usually more direct.

I missed the part where he is a confused jerk from your description, but if you don't like his company, be a little less friendly toward him and he'll play with the people who laugh or play back.

Answer 3

Sure sounds like he is a jerk probably not confused just wants to have his cake and eat it.

Tell him where to go.

This would count as a form of sexual harassment mention that to him and im sure he will be more careful in the future. At least if he wants to keep his job.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Girl Don't even go there. I been there, and it ends up as nothing but DRAMA. Especially if he is married. I made that mistake and it brought nothing but heartache. Just DON"T MESS WITH HIM. Boys are like school kids, they poke you and tease you when they like you. He probably just wants to get into your jeans.

Answer 6

1) He's married, don't get involved no mater how much he likes you (not even for a fling), it WILL come and haunt you someday. Why should it mater if he hates or likes you, is it affecting your work? If so speak with your manager or owner.

2) Read 1.

Answer 7

I don't think he's confused. He fancies you, BUT he's a real JERK. And if he's married & he's teasing you he probably thinks he God's gift to women too. Sad really!

Answer 8

Or, just maybe he is only friendly. I say hi to and tease ladies (those who don't mind) at my office, but I do not wish to date them. I'm just making the day a little lighter.

Answer 9

Well, nothing's going to happen cos he's married and you don't fancy him, so as long as you get on well enough to work together that's all that matters. He seems to like you, I can't see why you think he might hate you...

Answer 10

He likes you, but you may have some part in the flirting. Stop smiling in that married mans face, and be proffessional