Why do guys just have sex with a women and then not become emotionally attached? they just move on to the next one..i need a answer
2007-02-21 06:09:40 · 27 answers · asked by MAMA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just like the other answer not all guys are like that....most guys are idiots,, they just dont get it..they've been taught to believe that this is the way they should behave...dump any guy who claims he needs to be with other women all the time. hes not worth it...Women are art work and their beauty is beyond belief!!!any guy who cant see that is a complete fool.....
2007-02-21 06:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by marc r p 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Really?? I though it was the other way around??? do a search on girl asking why guys are so clingy,,, there and thousands!
It's two way street and depending what side you are standing on.thing look differently.. i have have the love em and leave em' girls as well the i neeeeeed you to luuuuuuv me for ever girly~girls.. everyone is different guys are visually attracted as we all know and girls are emotionally attracted, depending on how much testosterone they were born with...(fact). if a guy is a love em and leave me type and that's the kind of guy you are attracted to then.. when you made you bed now lye in it..alone.. maybe you should just look for a man in the middle somewhere.. a nice shy sweet guy that also can be a 'real man ' under th covers.. i find most girls are looking for the wrong person for 'them' in the first place to suit their personal need .. take a step back and look in to mirror lower o..or change you standards to include more sensitive men because they are about there.
good luck figuring out what you need and how to find it!!!
2007-02-21 06:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by Derrick Zooolander 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can't help you. I am a guy 52 (yes we still do it at this age!!!) I never moved on because I was attached to the woman first but quite a few women moved onto other people so it could be that men and women are both the same. Both move on only I met the women and you met the men who do that. Some of us stay, or want to stay. For me it is a big attachment.
2007-02-21 06:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because guys like sex - but find relationships complicated.
Let's face it, if they can have the candy without buying it why not try everything in the store?
A girl can't drop her pants every time a guy says hi and expect him to toss her a ring.
It's a catch 22. If you put out you're a slut and if you hold it back he will call you a tease.
You should never put out unless you are in a serious relationship in the first place. Always, use protection - you don't know where he or she has been.
2007-02-21 06:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by Collette L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation with a female. Some females also have unnattached with men. If a woman clearly shows that she is not interested in a relationship that it is real easy to have sex and move on. But on the other hand I would not have sex with a woman if my feelings for her were not the same that she has for me. Not enough men use that thought process before engaging in sax with a female. And again the woman needs to know her position in the matter as well. She can't have sex with a man in hopes to MAKE him like her or any other motive to have sex with him.
2007-02-21 06:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever go to a singles bar? I thought the whole reason to go there was for the man to pick up the woman and go home with her for the night. Am I wrong here? Both are looking for the same thing. SEX, not attachment. Not all men are like this though, your stereotyping.
2007-02-21 06:19:45 · answer #6 · answered by danzahn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL....it is not the sex, but the emotional connection that really matters. When someone cares about you, they give you some emotional connection, you know...that's what it's really about. A loving touch, a kind word, the physical closeness, holding each other lovingly....these are the real deal, not so much the old in and out!
2016-05-24 03:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we're made that way. For us you have to get the strings attached before sex else they will probably never get attached. You want making love then get in love first otherwise sex is just sex it is fun but that is it.
2007-02-21 06:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys feel that way, but IMO some guys do because they are afraid of committment.
also, guys don't attach as many emotions to sex as women do. To most guys, it's just like going out to eat, only much more fun. Women tend to associate sex with strong emotions, and that ties them more to the person they do it with.
2007-02-21 06:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont suppose this is really an answer but I'm 36 years old good looking and have had loads and loads of great sex,so good infact that nothing feels special anymore,it's left me feeling very empty!
It's not a good thing,dont have too much sex,have lots of love!!!
Be someone special,not cheep like me! good luck x
2007-02-21 06:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger I had these feelings. But it was only if I slept with someone right away. I'm sure it had to do with not being a challenge. So it's probably a little bit of maturity and being a challenge. If a girl made me wait, then I probably would have been more connected to her.
2007-02-21 06:13:03 · answer #11 · answered by whatever 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋