I've been with my partner for over a year, and I'm just as attracted to him as when I met him. He is far from perfect, but everything about his body still turns me on. But I don't think he feels that way about me haha which is why I'm asking- out of curiousity. Losing 10 pounds would help but hey...!!
2007-02-21 06:05:58 · 15 answers · asked by :-) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys sometimes run into a comfort zone type of thing. Many are still attracted to their partners, but they no longer put forth the effort of showing it.
As you guy to make a point of complimenting you everyday. At first it will seem strange, but after awhile, he will get into it.
Good Luck
BTW...I am still hot for my wife.
2007-02-21 06:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My fiance' and I have been together for 3 years in June and at one point I felt like he wasn't as attracted to me as before but I just kept on doing my thing and being a good girlfriend and showing him how much I love him and it paid off! Of course there are times when I wish I could choke him (j/k), but the attraction is still there.
Maybe it just seems like that because the new is wearing off of the relationship. Give it time and dont change anything, everything will work out!!
2007-02-21 14:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by lovepink317537 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm still as attracted to him as I was before. I have also been with him for over a year. We've been friends for over a year before that too. He's loved me before we even MET.
So maybe he's gained weight since dating me. But I don't care. I love him more and more and I can't wait till we're married. We plan on getting married after college. We want to finish school and get good jobs to be financially stable before making a big decision like marriage.
2007-02-21 14:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if lbs. has slipd in than yea lose, but if not than y lose? u c dis is wer da honest comes in. if somtng chagd then sey so don.t wate 4 thng 2 b a turn off 2 act difrent wit ech othr.
2007-02-21 14:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
but the time you can say "I'm the same person as yesterday" you have already changed just a little bit. that's the funny thing about life how we are allowed to change how we feel, think, & understand in a matter of seconds. and i noticed you put "i don't think he feels the same" communication. ask him it's better to know than it is to think.
2007-02-21 14:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That pretty much sux...but are you sure he really feels that way? I think most importantly is the way you feel about yourself, if you feel good then you should feel happy, but if you feel as tho there is room for improvements then fix that for yourself first, feel good about yourself first and then worry about what others think. And if he really loves you he would care if your in a bad phase in your life right now...
2007-02-21 14:09:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I love him.. but I am not attracted to him like I once was. I dont lust for him in that way, but I still love him very much... I dont know why that is.
2007-02-21 14:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by c_leoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what?? Im stiil attracted to my girl that ive been with for 18 years....Its all about love . real love not physical attraction...you can always go for the physical, but you can only find love once.....
2007-02-21 14:10:04 · answer #8 · answered by marc r p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not attracted at all and we've been married 17 years! Unfortunately he is still very much attracted to me and we fight cause he is always all over me which I hate ewwwww
2007-02-21 14:09:27 · answer #9 · answered by cutiepie81289 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well we have both gotten a little fluffy over the years (4)! i love him to death but sometimes i am bored with him and things aren't the way they were before!
2007-02-21 14:09:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋