just that final boost?

Question

I've heard it and told myself a million times over to try to get my nerve up and ask her out. just need the final boost, the balls out inspirational nerve driving motivational words to just ask this girl out! thats all i need, just that final boost.

Answer 1

Man, do I remember those feelings. I think every guy, and for that matter, every girl goes through the same experience. I think what we all fear is rejection. The amazing thing is that the girls are usually waiting by the phone waiting for the guys to call. The longer the phone goes without ringing, the more rejection they feel.

If you can just muster up the courage to make the call, you will probably find that the girl you want to ask out will be quick to accept. It won't take you long to gain the confidence to do it time after time. You won't be successful every time, but you will soon realize that that getting shot down is not the end of the world.

I say, go ahead and make that call as soon as possible!

Good luck!