I broke up w/ my boyfriend about two weeks ago but about a week ago, a girl told me that he'd asked her out while we were still together on New Year's. She said she asked him if he was drunk and he said 'no, I'm sober'. I'm 100% sure that my ex b/f drank on New Year's and he told me the day after when I spoke to him on the phone that he didn't remember much of it.
We are 100% over now but we're still friends (not good friends, but kind of just 'I'm bored, you're bored, let's hang out friends'). Now, when the girl told me I wasn't upset or anything because I'd broken up with him and I was over him. I'm not upset now and it doesn't bother me at all because it's an over and done with situation, but should I bring it up if that sort of general conversation comes up? Or should I leave it at rest.
I think the main reason I want to bring it up is just to let my ex know that I KNOW what he did, other than that, I'm totally over it. So, what are your opinions?
2007-02-21 05:40:07 · 8 answers · asked by Christy J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would not say anything about it now Id just leave it alone. You two are no longer togthere anymore anyways and if you want to be friends you half to let things from the past go and not talk about it it will just start problems for you is all.
2007-02-21 05:44:56 · answer #1 · answered by Amy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would have forgotten or whatever else got here up..He would have had a date and did not reply his call.Why would you ship him a nasty msg? So what if he failed to hang around with you..You will have to just treat him like any other neighbors that had something to do last minute as a substitute of sending him msg like that...What are you thinking?You should determine yourself out before trying to determine him out considering that if you are just treating him like some other persons/friends there is nothing so much to figure about..If he's an a s s then ignore him if he is first-rate then hang around with him..Keep it simple..
2016-08-10 16:42:00 · answer #2 · answered by blea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore
2014-11-08 10:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ttttt Tttttt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea you can bring it up, he owes you to tell you what really happened, I mean after all you two were still together back then. But its good that your over him and all, if not this could have been painful for u...
2007-02-21 05:45:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for me i'd probably bring it up casually like soo i heard you asked so and so out. . or somethin like that but don't make it your goal when you hang out, just when you think of it.
2007-02-21 05:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you really? then why do you want him to know that you know? doesn't make sense, if you want to remain friends with him then leave it alone, you know about it right? so that's all that matters, just let it go.
2007-02-21 05:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go, unless you want to pick a fight. If it doesn't matter and you aren't that close anymore, who cares?
2007-02-21 05:44:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
EX EX EX EX EX EX EX EXcuse ME!!
What's with all the caps?
2007-02-21 05:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by What gives? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋