when and how do we decide if the relationship is over? How do you decide something like that?
2007-02-21 05:31:57 · 8 answers · asked by sweeter than you 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The way you can decide if the relationship is over is if you don't have the energy emotionally, physically, spiritually or mentally to hold on to what you have. A healthy, open and honest relationship takes A LOT of work and need to have all those attributes that I listed above to make if work. The worst thing that you could ever do is stay with someone and you nor your significant other is happy. It's a waste of your time and his/her time. If you can try to break it off in a civilized and mature way and move on with your lives. Yes I know it may be hard but you have to do it for YOU.
2007-02-21 05:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by alexbeauty333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when someone asks this question, it is probably time to move on. If it doesn't feel right and niether of you have any intentions of making the relationship work again, it may be time to split up. Also, you shouldn't waste your life with someone you're not fully happy with, our days are limited, y'know, so if you guys do break up, good luck in finding a new partner that you WILL be happy with!
2007-02-21 13:36:53 · answer #2 · answered by Igloo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know when a relationship is over. Things are different even possibly so different, you can see the facts right in front of yourself. the person acts differently and you do as well. One knows when enough is enough.
God Bless and Good Luck to you.
2007-02-21 13:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation. It is so difficult because I love her more than anything in the world but we cant seem to go one day without a fight.
Contemplate this...
Do you spend more time arguing than you do talking?
Do you have much to say when you are on the phone or together?
When you see each other, does he/she seem in a good mood but a little while later they are quite & distsant.
Do you have more fun hanging out with other people than you do with your BF/GF. or.... Would you rather hang out with other people than with your BF/GF?
Do you see no change for better in your future together?
This is where I am at...
I don't think we should be together anymore, but I can't imagine my life without her. I am not happy with her, but I am so miserable without her.
I think I needed to vent rather than answer your question.
Sorry...
Good luck to you...
2007-02-21 13:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by warscoob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you dont care/love each other anymore.
my relatiosnhip has getting nearly to that stage so i have decided that me and my boyfriend be apart for 1 week and see what happens. use that as a last resort before you make any harsh decisions what you may regret.
2007-02-21 13:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by ice_castles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you don't see a future in the relationship anymore, or sometimes in a mutual agreement and still get to be friends...
but cheating does really just end it...
2007-02-21 13:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, then it's at the least time for a break. If you aren't BOTH 100% into it and sure that it's still right, then it no longer is. Sorry :(
2007-02-21 13:34:40 · answer #7 · answered by Betsy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just kinda know and when that time comes it is hard but u can do it if you have to....your a strong person and remind your self when doing this that when a door closes another door opens
2007-02-21 13:35:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋