I really dont know what to think anymore, sometimes i cry because i really didnt do anything.My best friend is the same age as me and shes the one having constant sex.I really love my mom but she cant continue to think this about me just cuz im a little thick she should be able to trust me. I do a a friendly boyfriend and weve been together for 10 months on the 24th but i wouldnt dare have sex with him i mean i really do like him and he said he doesnt want to until im ready but i dont plan on losing my virginty until i graduate from high school. I woulndt tell my mom that my friends having sex because shell think im having sex right along with her just because were "best friends". my friends always getting into it with her mother and sneaking boys in her house but to be honest ive never sneaken a boy in my house or had sex with one. Me and my mom have a good relationship but maybe shes worried because im her only child.
2007-02-21 05:20:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok well we do have to give your mom a little break cus the only reason she is acting this way is cus you are her everything and she knows that its really not good to have sex to young and she wants whats best for you but i agree she does need to trust you more and maybe the only way to get her to trust you is if you open up a little
so try telling her small things just start up a conversation and talk about small things and then if she is ok then go to bigger things
or you can talk to your mom and say i really want to talk to you and i think you are trying to do whats best for me but it hurts when you dont listen to me i just want to talk and not be acused of things
that works alot with moms
and hunny be so careful cus i know you havent planned on having sex but it just happens and when you are kissing and it gettin heated up its almost inpossible to stop so make lines where you dont cross and ask him to not cross them either and try to stay away from beign alone to much and fooling around to much it will help you make your goal of staying a virgin till you graduate
2007-02-21 05:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents are always going to worrry, so i wouldnt let that upset you hun...in the meantime, i think your one of the smartest high school girls ive seen on her, i think its very mature of you to wait..
i think you should be honest with your mom, bc THAT honesty, is someting u culd have hid from her or lied to her about...and she will recognize that...tell her that your aware of how well she has raised you and that your not going to make any stupid decisons...you obviously sound like you have a good head on your shoulders...that is something to be proud of..and im sure your mother will be soo proud of you too...
2007-02-21 05:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to hide when u talk with your bf on phone/meet him.... as u already know whats gud for you... this wud be great... once ur moms think u no longer interact with an particular boy her fear will certainly be less.... and gradually will go... also tell ur mom tht u can take care of urself and tht you will not have sex up and untill u graduate.... speak with her and dont be shy....
2007-02-21 05:27:00 · answer #3 · answered by Romps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have that good of a relationship with your parents they should know when you're lying or not. You shouldn't be having sex until you're married anyways not when you're done with high school. And if you really care about your best friend, you'd get her help so that she can stop. Good Luck to ya!
2007-02-21 05:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by Naomi J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mum assumed i became into having intercourse the 1st time I stayed over at my first boyfriend's place whilst i became into 18. She did no longer understand that i could already had intercourse via the time i became into 17 however. notwithstanding, whilst i became into sixteen, I had my first kiss mutually as distant places in England and that i informed her approximately it. Then six months later I went on pupil replace to Germany and he or she compelled me to get a prescription for the pill formerly I went... i do no longer think of she relied on me even then.
2016-10-02 12:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by poehlein 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how much you say you won't do anything they always think you are. I have the same problem. Try and sit your parents down and have a heart to heart. If they still don't beleive you, let it be and gain their trust through your actions.
2007-02-21 05:25:56 · answer #6 · answered by sweeter than you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Sit down and have a nice talk with your Mother and explain everything to her.Trust me she will understand.
2007-02-21 05:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by BabyGirl Emily. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to reassure them that you're not having sex. As long as you know then, it doesn't matter.
2007-02-21 05:24:11 · answer #8 · answered by Justyn's Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
USUAlly when men start thinking this way is when he is having an affair.
2007-02-21 05:23:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, stop worrying. Everything around you is alright. Really, just look around. Don't take pressure.
2007-02-21 05:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by arsenalsalam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋