If so, why? This is a question, not a judgment. I asked yesterday whether I had a right to try to syop my wife from having sex and having her boyfriend spend the night when she has the kids ( half the month, which means that she can, and should, boink all that she wants during the other half.) In parenting, the majority thought that I did have a right ( as does my lawyer) . In Marriage and Divorce, the majority said that she can do what she wants.
2007-02-21 05:17:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I think the ones in parenting prob are married with kids and understand how their behavior affects their kids where as the ones in marriage and divorce prob have no kids or had been divorced.I think most people answer from the ,main page so you prob got a lot of single kids answering the question.I am marries with 2 kids and I have several family members who have destroyed their kids for their own sexual satisfaction.Her sex life should not be brought into her home unless she remarries.This is not just because it is morally correct it is also a show of commitment to the kids that the person is there to stay.I think a judge will agree with you .Good Luck and god bless
2007-02-21 05:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by stegall_sherry 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is true, she can do what she wants, but I am with you. I dont think she should be having a guy over when the kids are over to visit. This should be Mummy and kids time and they shouldnt be witness to her affairs. If she wants to introduce this guy into the family then do family time together. Now, I am in my 40's and this is how I answer, I dont know if I would have said the same thing when I was in my 20's. We all tend to grow up and have different morals, understandings and ways of thinking at different stages in our life. I think you do have a kind heart and want the best for your children and their well-being.
2007-02-21 13:27:30 · answer #2 · answered by Mum to 2 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think in Marriage and Divorce, they tend to think about the individual more than the family or the children that will be affected. In Parenting, you tend to have more women, who think of the child first. I don't think we're anymore moral, just think more of the children. Good question though. I would say you have every right to demand no sleepovers, but then again, I'm a Mom.
2007-02-21 13:33:36 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa R 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
so...what does this have to do with morals? They are both adults and should be allowed to "boink" if they want (as long as they're not doign it in front of the kids). You have no right to limit her relationships.
Edit:
Go ahead and give me thumbs down people - this still isn't a moral issue and he still doesnt' have the right to tell his EX wife what to do. It's time for you all to get off your high horse.
2007-02-21 13:21:50 · answer #4 · answered by poohb2878 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I don't think its about morality, I think that maybe the people in the divorce section are bitter?
2007-02-21 13:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by kermit 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately, you cannot stop her. For your children's sake, she should stop.
I don't think there is a difference in the morality, so much as, perspective in the answers.
2007-02-21 13:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by Sherral 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
sure
2007-02-21 13:21:17 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Jesse♥ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋