It is the way she interact's with her best friend. She is absolutely loving towards her best friend.......wiping a crumb off her face......leaning in when they talk. They will share a bed together when if out of town, etc. My girlfriend is very clear that she has no interest in girls and the sex between us is great.
Am I crazy for thinking this behavior is excessive?
2007-02-21 05:05:53 · 14 answers · asked by makeurbrainhurt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have a potential LESBO
situation arising here?
options:
1]Take full advantage of this(yes)
or
2]pack your bags and head for the monastry(no)
only you can decide
i cant help you make the right choice (Psst:go for it go for it)
2007-02-21 05:13:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girl(s). Some of them like to be very physical with their friends. My wife has shared her bed before with some of her friends, but has nothing to do with being a “sexual” thing. Same with touching face, or other body parts.
My wife also has told me that she has seen in school and college other girls that even let other friends touch their breasts not only if they are concerned about something wrong (like a potential cancer or something like that) but also just to let them feel because they are comparing them around. And still, they are not lesbians or bi.
On the other hand, you get girls that would never even dream about touching, sleeping or being naked in front of other girls.
It all depends on how they were educated and what was told is right or wrong while being young. I’m talking about straight women, and excluding bi or lesbians, which then it is ok for them to do all this of course.
If you already talked to your g/f and she said she has no interest in other girls, then leave it as it is. Unless she gives you real reasons to believe she is into that, you shouldn’t have to worry (or unless you don’t trust her, but then I would worry about something much more important).
Now the question is, do you mind this? And, would you like for her to be bi? Maybe you are also a little obsessed with it. Think about it too.
2007-02-21 05:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha it's totally normal. Best friends with girls become like sisters. Me and my best friends have always shared beds during sleepovers and stuff like that. Don't take it personally, they're just close and it doesn't mean that anything is going on! Girls are all just weird like that :P
2007-02-21 05:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not very uncommon behaviour between two best female friends. Girls can be quite physical with each other and that doesn't mean they're into each other.
2007-02-21 05:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by chocolatebunny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some girls are just like that. Have they been friends for a real long time? How old is she?
2007-02-21 05:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by KOOSE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its a little excessive. but they are probably just really really good friends. does she act like that with you? i would say if she treats you the same way as she does her friend you might want to rethink the whole gay thing.
2007-02-21 05:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by LawDude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she may have some kind of sexual feelings for this girl but has not acted upon it yet. You should look into it more
2007-02-21 05:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by Justyn's Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has no interest in girls that's plural, what about one girl imparticular?
Or maybe she won't tell you either way as she knows that you'll want a threesome and she doesn't want that.
2007-02-21 05:10:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
mmm, wiping food of someones face is one thing .... the sharing bed thing is a bit of a stretch ..
2007-02-21 05:09:27 · answer #9 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This behavior is excessive.
2007-02-21 05:08:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋