he doesnt care about his wife. she cant satisfy him like i can. i really want to be with him and he wants to be with me but he wants me to finish high school and then divorce her but i get jealous, so wut should i do? plz try to understand my point of view!!
2007-02-21 05:00:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU ARE GOING WITH YOUR BEST FRIENDS DAD!!!!!
Forget about the illegal thing (which is very sick thing) you shouldnt be messing with your bff;s dad goodness
Think abotu what if she did that with your dad...how will you feel abotu that one?
2007-02-21 06:26:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "point of view" is selfish, illegal, and dishonest. This man doesn't want you, and will never divorce his wife for you. It's quite possible that his "attraction" for you is all in your head, just wishful thinking based on your own lust.
If he has made any sexual advances towards you, he has broken the law and is a pervert. He will never leave his wife for you; he just wants to use you for sex. He won't put up with your childish ways and tantrums; he'll get bored and dump you like garbage.
Also, this girl isn't your "bff", because if you were her friend at all, you wouldn't dream of tearing apart her family by flirting with her dad. You're a bad friend for even considering it.
The only true statement in your post is that he doesn't care about his wife... if he was any sort of decent man, he wouldn't do this to her, his daughter, or to you. If he has made any advances to you, then he is a dirty pervert, and you are a selfish brat, and you'll both end up on Dr. Phil for the whole world to mock.
Get a grip. Get some self-respect. Don't be the trashy home-wrecking slut you're about to become. And don't think that your selfish lust-fueled "love" justifies anything.
2007-02-21 05:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do understand your point. You got suckered by a 34 y/o man who is getting what he wants from you and gets to keep his home and life with his wife. The only thing he wants from a 16y/o kid is the sex you've been giving him. Since I have a 16 y/o daughter I strongly suggest you call his wife and tell her that you want her husband and they should get a divorce. Then tell your father about this scum sucking child molesting boyfriend. I'm sure your boyfriend would love to talk to your parents about your relationship together. And if your dad is anything like me, you won't have to worry very long about your boyfriend.
2007-02-21 05:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This man is using you. If you have any respect for yourself,your best friend, and his wife and other child get out while you can. No man of 34 can really have much in common with a 16 year old girl. What would your friend think? I imagine like the rest of us she would be disgusted. You're risking wrecking her relationship with her father as well. Do you really want your adult life based on other peoples' misery? You should think more of yourself. You have the world at your feet if you want, This man will tire of you too, he won't have any more respect for you than he has for his wife and family.GET OUT!
2007-02-21 05:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by SUSIE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious about this question, he deserves to be in jail. It's called statuatory rape and there is a reason it's against the law for a 34 year old man to be dating a 16 year old girl.
Sorry, but you have no point of view in this case. Not until you are 18.
2007-02-21 05:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You need some real help. There is so many things wrong with this situation that i won't even start. I really hope you are just wanting attention and this is not a real situation, because it is he should go to jail (and i would hope that his cell mates know why he is there) and you should never be aloud out of your house. If this is a real situation do you have any idea what you are doing to this family. To his wife to his children and to your self. You need help in so many different ways.
2007-02-21 05:42:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am trying to understand your point of view, but I also see it from the "other side". I'll just leave you with no advice, and an example of something that happened to someone else, and see what happens.
My oldest brother was born in Augsut of 1972. My mother was 15 at the time. Her boyfriend was 25, and also married, with kids. The guy told my mom he loved her.
When my mom told him she was pregnant, he completely disappeared. My brother was born without a father. The state then took him from my mother (since she was only 15), even though my grandmother later adopted him.
However, my grandmother actually turned her back on my mother for doing this to herself.
2007-02-21 05:12:22 · answer #7 · answered by ltygress 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hun you're 16 years old.
1. if he really wanted to be with you he would leave his wife.
2. what the he** are you doing with a man that old.
3. and i'm pretty sure you can't satisfy him better than his wife, cause you know why, your 16 , men will take it it if it is given to them, remember that.
i don't want to bash you or anything, but leave him alone, have repect for yourself, and for his wife, cause it won't last long trust me, been there! And you need to find someone your own age, your still a kid, remember that!
2007-02-21 05:07:05 · answer #8 · answered by star-e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 12:17:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing he could go to jail for messing around with you
it is considered rape you are 16 when he is 34 first off that is disgusting and he is married another thing do you really think your friend would approve of this. BF's come and go friends do not wake-up you inmature twit.
2007-02-21 05:05:05 · answer #10 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are way too young for this guy, and why would you put his poor wife through that? If he didn't love her he shouldn't have married her, and I'm pretty sure he's messing with you. He's probably just using you for sex, and I know your gonna say, no he's not like that!! Of course that's what you'll say, your 16. I see through your eyes what it must be like, but you're so young, you don't know what you're getting yourself into.
2007-02-21 05:05:40 · answer #11 · answered by krazy_chic6944 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋