we live in a foreign country so sending the kids to grandparents its impossible. we both run out of ideas of how to spend more time in privacy.
2007-02-21 04:53:57 · 14 answers · asked by existenZ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I have a 9, 5 and 2 year old. And I also have a short list of young ladies that are earning extra money by babysitting. One is exceptional at helping my son with his homework. Another even cleans after the kids go to bed instead of watching TV.
My kids love them all. Each is attending church with her family. And all of them are making good grades at school. So, I know my kids are in good hands while my wife and I grab a quick dinner out without children.
2007-02-21 05:06:05 · answer #1 · answered by penhead72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be sure to steal those moments when your children are sleeping also perhaps you could get a babysitter i dont know why your in a foreign country cause of a job or military but you must know some other people. But if thats not possible which I understand take the time you have when its peaceful and just enjoy each other have a pic nic on the living room floor sit outside and have a cup of coffee make love on the couch i know maybe that sounds weird but those little things can make a big difference and good luck =)
2007-02-21 13:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by Beautiful Dreamer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just get out of the normal day to day rut. Guys are usually up for some lovin' anytime their partner wants to. If the girl initiates the lovin' even better. Try a Saturday morning to yourselves after keeping the kids up later than normal on Friday night playing games or watching movies. That should give you the extra free time in the morning when the kids would normally be getting up.
2007-02-21 13:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by Eric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if your kids are sleeping in your bed, GET THEM OUTTA THERE! And have a set bedtime for them - my child is 3 and she goes to bed by 8. Then you can have your adult time - and its very important!
Also, try spicing things up after the little ones go to bed. Take a bubble bath together, rub his back or feet......get a little costume or something. Keep the zip in your marriage, because one day your kids will be grown and out of the house!
2007-02-21 13:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by sierraskyesmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In general, just schedule some time for just the two of you. Yes, I said schedule. Even if it's at 11pm, for 30 minutes (hopefully longer, but if that's all you can do...) - make sure you both know the scheduled time & make an effort to only concentrate on each other. Plus that time is something you can be looking forward to - makes your day easier to get through! Have fun!
2007-02-21 13:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by mstrayg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing you could do is go home run a hot bath, light some candles and turn the lights out after the kids go to bed... Take your husband in the bathroom and lock the door.. Its very nice... Throw some rose petals in the bath with you... Its very romantic and might bring back some spark...
2007-02-21 12:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by KrisChris3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
During the week tell your husband you are scheduling a date with him on ...when ever it suits both of you best. So the night of your date and the kids are all in bed. Have a glass of something you both like, curl up on the sofa and watch a movie. You get the picture.
PS I schedule a date with my husband once a week and it works for us.
2007-02-21 13:20:48 · answer #7 · answered by HAH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol -
i've run up against the same problem.
depends on how old the kids are.
my are younger -
we started reading them stories before bedtime - they love the attention and it puts them right to sleep
we've taken familiy trips - new parks.
I've taken days off of work just to spend time with day - pizza date, ice cream, etc.
they get more time to snuggle with us in teh bedroom.
BUT...when its time for me and my wife...they understand.
other suggestions - make friends with some of the local girls and ask them to watch the kids.
2007-02-21 12:59:35 · answer #8 · answered by Hairy Monster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh the joy of kids... lot's of planning. and teaching the kids to have quiet activities so you can have time even if it is 10 minutes. That is better than nothing. 10 minutes can be the be quality time spent if spent well.
2007-02-21 12:58:55 · answer #9 · answered by TIA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the kids are asleep for the night thats your time to be alone together. sucks being a parent doesnt it. when the kids are sleeping and your both home enjoy each other
2007-02-21 12:59:03 · answer #10 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋