"This" refers to giving head.... sucking a guy's cock (a.k.a. dick)......... at a online video place or if you caught her on video in her room (when you were not at home)??????
2007-02-21 04:52:22 · 17 answers · asked by Jessica White 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I would be horrified. I would give her a major lecture on self respect, STD's, and the dangers of early sex. And I would ground her for months. She needs religious training.
2007-02-21 04:56:52 · answer #1 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Confront her and ask her why she would do this in the first place. Let her know that her actions are out there for the whole world to see and talk about. It's a small world and it's only a matter of time before everyone she knows will know about it. Is she ready for the backlash, giggles, sneers and being labeled by her peers let alone her own family (grandma, aunts, uncles etc.). In the end her actions will affect her and not you. Make sure she knows there will always be consequences for her actions, it will happen it just depends on what she's willing to live with.
2007-02-21 13:06:17 · answer #2 · answered by trojan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she would not only be grounded, she would lose her video cam, computer, video games, tv, life as she once knew it, would be done. She would have alot of re-earning of her priveledges to do. In fact, I am quite sure she would never be able to do enough to re-earn some of them while living under my roof.
Several of you think that she shouldn't be allowed to be left alone in the house. Thats not realistic, and it punishes the parents. If you take away all priveledges - there is no reason not to leave her alone. She is going to have to try to rebuild her trust in her daughter, and that won't happen standing over her every waking moment. You have to give the daughter a chance to prove that she learned something from this.
2007-02-21 12:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by MommaSchmitt 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Put a stop to it immediately. Get a medical book of common diseases - something like what nurses and doctors use while in school. Show her pictures of gonorrhea, herpes and chlamydia. Give her a serious wake-up call.
A lot of this is going to depend on your set of values. Your morals will dictate what you tell her. Just make sure you're standing on the moral high ground, so to speak. (I'm not accusing you of being immoral, but teenagers will find any and every flaw in their parents as an excuse not to behave themselves.)
2007-02-21 13:00:54 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda M 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i would take the computer away and talk to her about why it is not ok to do this. there are so many things that can happen to someone by doing these types of things. catch it now before it gets worse otherwise it is going to be a lot tougher if not impossible down the road. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-21 12:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old is she? How old is he?
If this is an illegal act... call the cops. If she's just giving her boyfriend head... I would advise her to make it a private act and to stop video taping it.
2007-02-21 12:56:32 · answer #6 · answered by naenae0011 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that would be a hard one, it really doesnt matter about the age if she was an adult thats your house and thats disrespectful to do that in your house. But if she is younger I would talk to her about it and say that you cant trust her alone in the house anymore.
2007-02-21 13:08:47 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too vague.... 1.how old are they (both her and him). 2. can be answered after the age. Im sure this was surprising to you as a parent and aroused some suspicion and bitterness. Im sorry for you.
2007-02-21 12:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by Surrendered 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her and talk to her. and make sure shes never home alone also it would depend on the age over 18 not much you can do under whole different ball game
2007-02-21 12:55:36 · answer #9 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't leave her home alone anymore and you need to talk to her. Seriously before it goes further.
2007-02-21 12:57:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋