I just broke up with my boyfriend not too long ago. I had hope that we would get back together and now I don't think it will happen. It hurts a lot. I feel like I can never move on and that another good man will never come into my life. I'm 24 but I feel like there is no hope for love again. Has anyone ever felt like this? If so, did you ever get over it?
2007-02-21 04:49:52 · 10 answers · asked by missjessie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it will get better... i have helped many of my friends with this and they all recover... if you need me just e-mail me.. misseygirl14@yahoo.com i love helpin people!
2007-02-21 04:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by Im addicted to the memory of him 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I got divorced 3 years ago (at the same age you are now) that is EXACTLY how I felt. But in the last three years, that has changed, drastically.
I've met so many guys, and found so many of them that were much more compatible than my ex-husband ever could have been. I had a few serious relationships during that time, and once again, felt like that. This hopeless feeling came EVERYTIME I ended a relationship. But I always found another one.
My last relationship ended this past November. It hurt for a long time. And I was always wanting to tell him I'm sorry for everything, and try to get back together. That was ruined after I found out he already had a new girlfriend.
But just over two weeks ago, I met another guy who I've become imcredibly interested in, and my mind is completely off of my ex-boyfriend now. I can't say this new one will last either, but at least I've gotten over the ex.
And in time, you will too.
2007-02-21 13:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by ltygress 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry, the time will come when you will feel like your happy self again...break ups are always hard, and sometimes they only get harder, before they can get better....try clearing your mind up, go out with the girls, concentrate on your school or work, or family and close friends... take part in your OWN interests and hobbies...there are many things you couldnt do when you were in a relationship, and now is the time to think about all those things, and finally do them. I think the best part of a break up, is all the aspects you learned from it, and in turn, you will grow from it and it will help you heal. You will find love again...you just had a broken heart...we get those alot...its normal, and it might not be your last...but i can gurantee you, that the next time your in a relationship, you will handle things differently, and feel differently about the connection. Time truly does heal all wounds, and although its very hard for you to believe my words right now, all i can say is be patient and let new love come to you... in the meantime, concentrate on you and your life and find happiness in yourself. dont ever depend on a man for your own happiness....easier said than done, I know, but it CAN be done and I think you can do it.
Good luck hun :)
2007-02-21 12:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by SassyGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 30, I feel this all the time. Well, atleast until I date someone new. Time is the only way to get over it. I go into every relationship with a fresh attitude that I will not get dicked over this time.
2007-02-21 12:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by whatever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i have felt like that lenty of times, even now in a lil way i feel ike that you just have to keep yourself busy, try to not think or talk about him, you aint going to die of love, and what doesnt kill you makes you stronger. so dont keep yourself down, go out to social events like clubs, friends houses, restaurants, a gym, u know the average things in life, the more you see your self without him the less pain you'll feel in the long run girl, keep ya head up and dont call him or sweat him cuz all thats going to do is keep him thinking that you're weak and that you need him, im in the same situation, and it sucks bad.......
2007-02-21 12:57:28 · answer #5 · answered by dat_sweetmami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hear ya and it sucks horribly but i can promise you that in a lil bit like 4-6 months ull be fine with yourself just start working on yourself now trust me its the best thing to do im in month 5 now and i feel alot bettter wish i would made myself feel better long time ago cause making yourself feel bad dont get you no where trust me i just got outta that stage its gonna be stages good luck
2007-02-21 12:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it seems sad but it has taken two years for me to get over my bf im now going on dates and having a great time. in a way i still love him but u will meet someone new and it will be great i feel for you, take my advice n stay busy move on
2007-02-21 12:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by SHY1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel. i've felt like that a lot of times. when the right guy comes along you'll feel better again. he'll probably come along when you least expect it.
good luck
2007-02-21 12:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by ~lipgloss barbie doll~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no im sorry
2007-02-21 12:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by Cool_Guy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
then why did you break up with him?
2007-02-21 12:53:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋