Should I be concerned about my girlfriend and her best friend??
My girlfriend and her best friend walk around the apartment/hotel/house naked and don't see it as anything odd. My girlfriend also cuddles with her best friend on our couch and tickles. I also discovered a photo of them kissing on the lips at a nightclub, which took place during New Year's Eve. (I was there, but on a different floor). My girlfriend says she once thought she was in love with her best friend, but no longer is. Her best friend is now married, but I think my girlfriend might have feelings for her. Am i lucky or should i be concerned?
2007-02-21 04:43:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd be back on the street man. Sounds like your woman is a carpet crawler, not a pole dancer. Get going before you wind up holding the bag.
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2007-02-21 04:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to be honest, I would also be asking the same as you.
If the two of them walk around naked, it could mean they have already been very intimate with each other. But you can’t know that for sure unless at least one of them tells you.
If your g/f says she was in love, then I guess the feeling could be there. Maybe you can ask her if that love would be something in between you two or if is something that is different and apart. Many bi-sexual girls have the ability to be in love with both a guy and a woman at the same time and they are all happy with it. The question is, would you be happy like that?
On the other hand, if her best friend is married, then what is going on with her husband? Does he know? Do you know him? Have you talked to him about this? And what really bothers me, how do you know they actually walk naked in the house/apartment/hotel as you said? Did she tell you or you have actually seen it? If you saw it, then I guess you can think you are lucky because obviously her friend is ok with you looking at her naked. But again, how about the husband??
If this whole situation is for real, you need to think about everything, and based on what you want, talk to your g/f and make sure that things are right in the relation.
Many guys would be happy to have a bi g/f, but reality check comes after and they discover it could be a mayor problem. Or maybe one day you realize is too late when you find yourself in a threesome or even a foursome with her husband as well. Is that something you want or that you would consider? Maybe you are lucky, maybe not, but the only way to find out is to confront your g/f and have an honest talk. After that, it will depend on what you two come up with and what you two want to do with the relation.
Or you just can stay as it is and see what happens. Is all up to you.
2007-02-21 05:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definately be concerned if you think this bizzarre thing between them is affecting your relationship, you need to confront her and let her know what you think about all of this and that you want a stop put to it. If want to be with your girlfriend and keep her committed to you then you need to let her know this has to stop, and find out once more if she still has feelings for her best friend who by the way is married, which is not help on the best friends side because if the other found out there could be more problems then you care to deal with, just think about what you plan to say and then tell her flat out. If she is the understanding type then she will stop what she is doing before things go to far and work on things with you, if not then it is up to you and you alone to start a new relationship
2007-02-21 04:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be concerned. I've never felt the urge to do any of the things you describe with another woman friend. Bizarre.
2007-02-21 04:47:45 · answer #4 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend is a bisexual then you have the right to have a problem with her hooking up with other girls, best friend or not. What I don't get is why she needs all of this sexual attention from her best friend...
2007-02-21 04:46:57 · answer #5 · answered by Kristin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Girlfriend might be bisexual if she has feelings for her best friend. She might not be cheating, but find out for sure, maybe you should do some investigating.
2007-02-21 04:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by Kyle B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like cheating to me. If you are the kind you doesn't mind if your girl is with others then don't worry but if not then you should be concerned with them (or others)
2007-02-21 04:51:53 · answer #7 · answered by unknown2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD BE CONCERNED
2007-02-21 04:45:54 · answer #8 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋