Ok, I'm in my early teens, but my bust is well, kinda "larger" than most of the girls my age. It's also not exactly "the norm" in my family, either. I feel self-conscious about it somtimes, because sometimes when I'm talking to guys, they aren't always looking at my face...they steal a glance downward to my chest, and then quickly back to my face. It's really annoying and embarrasing!!! Waaah!!! Am I the only one here with that problem?
2007-02-21 04:27:07 · 27 answers · asked by KuteasaKitten 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
Oh, then one time at a camp, I was wearing a shirt that says "Every girl needs a few loyal subjects," right on the chest. This guy stopped in front of me and took maybe a little too long "reading" the phrase, and says, "I'll be one of your loyal subjects..." I didn't exactly think about that 'till I got home. Freak...
2007-02-21 05:38:21 · update #1
i have the same problem =( im 14 and got a bigger bust than almost everyone my age. i remember one time i was walking up my school drive and this boy looked down at my chest then up at my face and asked, "what year are you in" so i replied "year 9 (grade 8 in america i believe) he said really? you looked older to me... it gets kinda embarrassing in sports as well. dont feel bad about it be happy with what you got, my friends always say they wished they had a big bust as well!
2007-02-21 05:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by ~ Twirl Girl ~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG! No you're not the only one. It's the way teenage boys are encoded to act. This is so normal for guys to do, the majority of them don't know different. Anyways... I was in your same shoes in high school and you just need to be proud of what you have and just go with it. I was a silly flirt and enjoyed it although deep down I was worried about being a little larger than the other girls. In the end, it's your personality that matters most. Be confident and have as much fun as you can... God knows if I could do it again, I would go back to high school in a heartbeat!!! Good Luck honey!
2007-02-21 04:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by alchaley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's men for you. Hate to say it, but get ready for a lifetime of men oogling at your chest. They're biologically programmed to be like that. The best thing to do is get a sense of humor about it and don't be self conscious. Chances are, other girls are secretly jealous of your curves. And one of the best things anyone ever told me was this: Remember, there will always be someone out there who would rather have your body than their own!
2007-02-21 04:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be prepared for a life full of men looking at your chest instead of your face. Let them know they're not being sly & that you can see where they're looking. Straighten 'em up!
Enjoy your body. Don't flaunt it, be careful, and enjoy being an early teen! It's way too early for you to have to be worrying like this or feel embarassed.
2007-02-21 04:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by Winette 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey i ain't in the same place but i do have advise i know how u feel everyone in my family has them but i have none and i am amost a teen well maybe u should start doing more with your face or wear shirts that say stuff like they don't talk or my face is up here ^ anything 2 draw away attention and don't be ashamed with them !!!!! ♥always ~amber~
2007-02-21 04:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by Dessys my lezy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope I was an early bloomer and trust me mine were "not an average size" but you learn to live with them. Just know that you are lucky to have some and be proud of them...as far as the guys looking at your breast..make a comment about it...like "hello..look up here"...
2007-02-21 04:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by Nenish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even with smaller breasts, guys look at mine. Its a typical guy thing to look at breasts, big or small on younger or older women.
Its definitely a guy thing and I'm sure at your age all the hormones aren't helping. Try not to worry about it, I know easier said than done, but if that's all a guy is looking at, just walk away if you are nervous or uncomfortable.
2007-02-21 05:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clearly no. lots of girls have big boobs. and guys look at ALL boobs, small, big, medium, they always have a little look lol your not alone at all. stick your chest out and be proud! get a brilliant bra from a good shop like bravissimo, this wil look gud ando also prevent sagging (well...a bit lol) dont wear really low cut/tight tops, but wear things that flatter your boobs and also your whole figure, and highlight your assets!dont feel that your appearance is defined by them, therea re lots of other things that make you attractive, too.
2007-02-21 04:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by bojanglestothemax 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just wear difrent shirts that are more colorfull and if some chic asks you if her boyfriend was looking at ur bust tell them they were looking at the color on ur shirt because they are going to look at ur chest alot untill u grow into them and then they will not be as interested in them but you!!!!
2007-02-21 04:38:21 · answer #9 · answered by Ba-Ran-de 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably developed early. it is fine, i see lots of girls who have huge breasts in their early teens. the important thing is not too flant it too much. do not wear all low cut shirts, try to hide it a bit. the worst thing than a young girl being a hooker is dressing like one. there is a time to show it, and a time to be modest. if you cover it up a bit, people won't stare. trust me.
p.s. i dont mean hide, i mean i cover it a bit. you shouldnt hide any part of you, it was given to you for a reason.
good luck!
2007-02-21 04:33:36 · answer #10 · answered by khrycho17 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋