, you are each others best friend, all the signs?
of a great relationship, but he tells you he wants to talk to you about something and he wants to be honest with you, caught between scared if he tells you you will leave him or should he not tell you and keep his secret that tears him apart day after day, As scared as he is to tell the one he loves with all his heart, he knows he has to be honest - so he tells you that since age 13 he is a CrossDresser, mostly at home in private and scared shi*less of being caught, still at age 38 he is as unsure of that realm of life as he was the day it started, hes not gay, hes not bi-, and he worships the ground you walk on, Do you stay and try to understand with him and no matter what love him as he is and he does love you as you are as well _or are you narrowminded and tell him you never want to see him again while suggesting he seek help ?
2007-02-21 04:17:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and this is something that stays private, not trying to compete just wanting to be comfortable with the one hes with
2007-02-21 04:29:29 · update #1
I think if I Really loved the guy, I would work it out!
Heck, I may even shop with him!!!!
2007-02-21 04:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is just my friend, then yes, I would support him. If it were a love interest, I would leave. Not because I'm "narrowminded" as you say, but I don't think I could handle something like that. I wouldn't want to come home and cook for my husband or whatever that comes home from work and changes into one of my dresses.
2007-02-21 04:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't throw away a great relationship over something minor and frivolous. I commend him for telling you, it says a lot about his character and his feelings for you. Be the best friend you claim you are and stick with him and get him help. There may be a psychological reason for his cross-dressing that needs to come out. You obviously have a good man. Stick with him.
2007-02-21 04:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by Simply Sasa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest he seek help for it, but I would stick by his side. If he's not gay or bi, then I would stay and work through it with him the best I could. If I liked him before I knew that, then my feelings shouldn't change for him, but it would be sorta weird for me at first.
2007-02-21 04:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it depends on how deeply I loved him. Without any emotional involvement, I'd walk away. And yes, that is narrow minded, but I coulnd't cope with being married to a look-alike woman.
If I loved him deeply, I'd probably stay.
2007-02-21 04:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, everyone has something about them that makes them different from everyone else, whether it is crossdressing or going on late night cake and ketchup binges...I would stay and see if he would like to seek help.
2007-02-21 04:24:54 · answer #6 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might take exhilaration in the attempt. He might have only located a bowl of potato chips on the coffee table. it must be "basically a television dinner", yet once you're hungry, who cares? nutrition is nutrition, as properly, are you there for the dinner or the enterprise of the guy? upload: reckoning on style, a number of those dinners are not 0.5 undesirable.
2016-11-24 22:04:05 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends will be there for you no matter what. If I knew that my best friend had a bad attitude against cross dressers, than I probally wouldnt say anything.But true friends will remain true through it all.
2007-02-21 04:23:23 · answer #8 · answered by beaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may find it sexy, unless you start ruining her cloths. Start out by joking about it around her and see how she takes it. It's going to have to come out sometime. Better get it over with before you're married.
2007-02-21 04:23:44 · answer #9 · answered by whatever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋