break her heart due to this fear i am not able to express my feelings to her though i know she too loves me and she's waiting that when i will propose her but...please give me a very good suggestion.
2007-02-21 04:09:21 · 13 answers · asked by 3ut 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you feel you will betray her? i'm guessing maybe there's some kind of physical aspect of her you dont like. I you feel that you will have some reason to betray her, then you're obviously already betraying her or thinking about how to betray her and she doesnt deserve that.
2007-02-21 04:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by MariChelita 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why will you lose interest in her, if you love her your find a way to fix that & put some spice in to the relationship. If you have doubts about the relationsip don't propose to her just yet. Find a way to let her know how you feel. I know is very difficult for some man to express themself but that's the only way you will find and answer to your questions. DON'T TELL HER THAT YOU MAY LOSE INTEREST IN HER, or anything liket that because you may lose her that's to harsh for some women to handle, it will be for me. You can tell her that you like the way the relationship is now and that you love her but your affraid things will change if you guys get married. Maybe you can still give her a ring, not an engagement ring but something that proves to her that you love her.
Good Luck!
2007-02-21 12:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by Beba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo! Me too! What I did was wait and hope that something comes up to break it off. It did! she was hangin out with a mutual guy friend, and I just used that as beign suspicious and I ended like that.
Gotta have substance- at least something reasonable.
2007-02-21 12:20:02 · answer #3 · answered by Ri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You 've said it yourself, you can't be faithful to that girl and I think you can't be faithfull to anybody either. The only suggestion that I can give to you is that you go work on your morals and values and rules about dating. See, there's a law that says you reap what you sow . l hope this leave an alarm in your conscience.
2007-02-21 12:16:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You harbor this fear because you know she loves you and in your heart seems like you are not gonna be true. So do the right thing and love her back.
2007-02-21 12:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to leave some more information for example why would you leave interest, also grammar school would be an option for you also.Why would you betray her she loves you? have you betrayed her before?
2007-02-21 12:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by intelligent momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are so unsure of your faithfulness to her, than you need to tell her that and end the relationship.
You can only marry a girl that you are fully committed to and best friends with.
Take care,
Troy
2007-02-21 12:13:32 · answer #7 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to cheat. Just always get into it. Make sure you love her though. The only way you will cheat is if you choose to
2007-02-21 12:14:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe getting married just isn't for you if you are already worried about losing interest in someone you aren't even with yet...
2007-02-21 12:13:42 · answer #9 · answered by Kristin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to say what those reasons are if you are to get an honest assessment. Dont be shy, we don't know you!
2007-02-21 12:13:52 · answer #10 · answered by Simply Sasa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋