2007-02-21 04:05:03 · 16 answers · asked by whiteredblf 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Definitely, YES! Although a deal like this is a bit shady for both parties to agree with, as well as maintain, the benefits to your own health, as well as your son's scholarship more than outweigh any negative factors concerned.
You would even stand a much higher probability of seeing him graduate, first,from high school, then, hopefully, from college later on!
My own sainted father quit over 40 years ago, without having to strike such a bargain, but for reasons of his own, but some damage was already done, and smoking was still a factor in his final demise, still shortening the time we had together in this life.
My fervent hope for you and your son is, not only stopping your own habit, but his learning from your example, and that HE never STARTS, himself.
2007-02-21 04:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I quit smoking, but never really started, so anyway now I can't stand the sent of cigarettes. All that is beside the point I know. Thing is I think that would be a good thing to agree to and at least give it a strong try. Heck if he doesn't get all A's then at least cut back, I'd start right at that point if you really wanted to follow through. Then if he doesn't get all A's you say well you tried your best so I'm going to keep trying my best.
2007-02-21 04:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my son asked me to quit for all A's in school I would have in a flash. My son used to break my cigarettes all the time since the age of 2. I guess he was hinting then, sad to say I still smoke. Hard habit to quit since I have been smoking 30 years now. If my son had asked back then it would have cut my years down . Good luck my friend and I hope you do stop as I tip my hat to ya.
I wish I had the strengh to do it but I guess I just love smoking to much to quit
2007-02-21 04:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by Priestess Pachina 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All you can so is tell him you will try...I have tow children (7 and 13) and as you, as a parent, know I have been harassed about quitting since the oldest started kindergarten!....I have tried several times and failed (as a smoker you probably already know too!)...Currently I am taking a new drug called Chantix.....It works kind of like Zyban did and it cuts off your nicotine receptacles in your brain.....I can honestly tell you after about a week of taking it I just did not smoke...I honestly was not even trying to quit yet!....You might try it?...Can't hurt...right?......
P.S. sometimes I still have cravings and I have chewed so many straws I think I might get plastic posioning...lol....But my kids are worth trying and the money savings has been nice too...Good Luck...ss
2007-02-21 04:17:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse, it's a great way to motivate him to do well in school. Also it shows how worried he is about you and that he wants you to quit. The thing is even if he doesn't get straight A's quitting smoking will help
2007-02-21 04:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by steven j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, probably not.
a man whos in that situation already knows what cigarettes are doing to him and his family, (unless hes been living under a rock for the past 20 years) so if nothing has changed his mind so far, or given him the kick in the A then his son trying to make a bargain probably wont either.
im sure it would make him try, but if he does, then it has nothing to do with his son's grades
2007-02-21 04:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by kristin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not going to work unless YOU WANT to quit. I watched my dad tried many times but it didn't work until his brother died of oral and throat cancer (that enough should be a motivator, you think?) Talk with a doctor or a counselor, talk about drugs that can help. It will be hard (but sooo worth it).
But if your son doesn't get all A's, please don't tell him "I'm not quiting because you failed" cuz dude, that would suck.
2007-02-21 09:38:35 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HECK YES!!! He's obviously concerned about your help and is trying to reach out to you. Show him that you have enough respect for yourself (and him) to stop such a dangerous and disgusting habit. You will have a much better chance of keeping him from smoking when he gets older if you yourself are a non-smoker.
2007-02-21 04:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, your son asking that is showing major concern and love for his father. Show him some love back by quitting even if he doesn't get all a's.
2007-02-21 04:10:00 · answer #9 · answered by happyfacemommy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes your son is making a commitment. so you should show your son that you love him and to the same.
2007-02-21 04:33:32 · answer #10 · answered by chedderapples 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋