its like im invisible or somthing what should i do?
2007-02-21 04:03:38 · 8 answers · asked by Ashlie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes people are so into there boyfriends they act like they have no other part of life and that they only have time for there boyfriends. yeah and i have had heard alot of friends say that there friends do that.
2007-02-21 04:07:25 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Justinee X3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are temporary. Im sorry to say it but your friend is going to have a reality check when they take a break, or break up for good and she has no one around anymore. She's changed her prioritys for a guy and its a pattern many cant seem to break. It's something your just going to have to accept about her.Although, Let her know how you feel in an understanding way and make it clear to her that you suddenly feel invisble when this new guy is around. You however have to understand that this is exciting for her. If you can learn to vibrate off of that excitement and share it with her, you'll start to find that positive things will begin to come your way and she will be drawn to this new positivety that you exute, and will want to spend more time with you. Otherwise, if you negatively express that you dislike her new boyfriend, she will probably choose him over you, because she wants the excitement rather than the negativity that YOU may exute. So try to be excited with her and i promise good things will come your way. It's a very difficult thing to grasp. I hope you understand it.
2007-02-21 04:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by just me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy for her? This is nothing new; just about everyone starting a new relationship has less time for their other friends and activities, and in the earliest stages, they may spend almost all their available time together. They're exploring their new relationship; give them time, and eventually your friend will have some time for you.
2007-02-21 04:17:07 · answer #3 · answered by stmichaeldet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be happy for her adn eventually she will come around and realize what she is doing. Have a talk with her about it and tell her you need some girl time.
2007-02-21 04:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural for younger people to do this to each other.When younger I had a friend who would do thesame thing with every girlriend(wow).Not 1 but every single1.Never did it myself,but maybe she has a problem with multitasking?
2007-02-21 04:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a new relationship, then she is probably infatuated with him. It will where off in time, but if it's true love then you will have to deal with it. Sorry!
2007-02-21 04:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by whatever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you're feeling neglected in your friendship with her. If she doesn't care, then forget her. If she does, then try to work it out.
2007-02-21 04:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happens all the time
can't compete with THE ONE
find your own center
be one
2007-02-21 04:07:29 · answer #8 · answered by willow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋