but not feel it only so they can get what they want from you???...I mean Is it posible???...why what kind of world are we leaving that people are so unconsidered from other peoples feelings...is this girl for real???she said she will choose me oevr her family...but she didn't???...why??...the worst part is that i can't hate her...I'm so broken i can't function...
2007-02-21 03:47:42 · 18 answers · asked by bouche 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sad but true, there are people out there who use others for what they want at the expense of other people's feelings. However if this girl has to chose between you and her family then the situation is not good to begin with. You need to find someone who is right for you. Keep your chin up and find someone who loves and respects you! I know it hurts now but you have to live and learn.
2007-02-21 03:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are people like that in the world. It is sad that this has happened to you as she makes the rest of the girls look bad. But when it comes to saying that one will make the choice of someone over family is a big no-no. One should not have to make that choice. Maybe when this girl said that, she meant it, but once it came time to put words into action she realized blood is thicker than water.
2007-02-21 11:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because someone says I love you does not mean they do. You can tell if the person does by the way they treat you. Do they show you???
Where her family is concerned, put yourself into her shoes then determine if you would do the same.
Though you may be hurting now, this will only make you stronger and remember that one day you will fall in love again.....better if the person loves you more though!
2007-02-21 11:57:30 · answer #3 · answered by Destiny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not some people not all are just that evil , Why are you so broken that you can't function? If your nice person: people take your niceness for granted and used it to get what they want and switch up on you, Sometimes you just have to take some people for what they are, it's something you can't change.
2007-02-21 11:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by temako r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens all the time. It is part of growing up.
People like that are called sociopaths. They have no conscience and no guilt feelings. You should get down on your knees and thank the Lord that this perosn is out of your life. Think of how much more she could have hurt you.
You will get over it and find someone who loves and appreciates you.
2007-02-21 11:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hate her. She probably did think that she loved you enough to choose her family over you, but when it finally came down to it she wasn't strong enough to do it. That is weakness not malice. Sometimes people can say things even about their own feelings that they themselves believe, but that are proven false by their actions. Find someone who will show you they love you, not just tell you.
2007-02-21 11:58:18 · answer #6 · answered by a girl in the library 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked her what she wants from you?
having family and boyfriends can be very difficult for some people to handle.If she cares so much for you,I don't think it was an intentional act.you inturn must know her family was there before you were.don't ask her to give up on her family altogether.This might ruin what you do have.Be Strong,Think Positive.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!
P.S.There are two sides to every story.
2007-02-21 11:57:26 · answer #7 · answered by BaDonkaDonk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya ive done that with a girl, I told her I loved her when I wasnt even really attacted to her. But she kept buying me stuff and she loved me so much I thought I could just settle for it... Eventually I dumped her.
I felt like an *** though, so if she has an conscience whatsoever she feels like one too.
2007-02-21 11:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound evil... she sounds weak. Family can exert huge pressure when they don't like your relationship. It sounds like they were stronger than she was, and she gave in.
That having been said... yes, there are people who are so self-absorbed that they will say and do anything to get what they want.
2007-02-21 11:52:34 · answer #9 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa, baggage much? Don't worry man, I'll hate her for you. I'll be honest, I don't know what the hell ur talking about, I read blah blah blah hate, blah can't hate, blah can't function. Sounds like your a normal guy to me. Ha, and I thought I could only tune out to women. SCORE, NEXT LEVEL BABY!
2007-02-21 11:53:23 · answer #10 · answered by TheChaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋