Well this is a follo up to some of my other? I went to a b ball game last night with som of my friends and it just si happens that one of my friends has dated the guy that i like. so she was tellin me stories bout him and i had already known that they had sex, but she also told me that a couple of weeks after he told me that he liked me she called him and he asked if she wanted to come ovr. so i dont kno what to do i lik this guy but i already told him that im not gonna hav sex wit him and he said that thats fine and it doesnt matter but now im havin 2nd thought to wether ill br enough 4 him
2007-02-21 03:46:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im not going to hav sex with this guy im not ready for that and i wont be for awhile
2007-02-21 04:07:18 · update #1
You. Are. Very. Insecure.
Regardless of how good or bad a person he is, or whether or not you'll be enough for him, or whom he has done what with in the past, you are supposed to be just dating. Most importantly, if you realize that you aren't "enough for him," then you are presented with a choice: you can either give up and move on, or you can better yourself.
If you're worried about you ability to perform sexually, then grab a couple of books - or, better yet, ask him what he likes. You'd be surprised how well a guy responds to, "So, baby, what would you like me to do?" And then continue to be communicative during the act. When it doesn't seem like something is working, change it up and ask if he likes it. It's wondrous what one can achieve in just one encounter.
Again, as I said before, there are also several books out there at your disposal, from the more timid "Sex for Dummies" (which also includes advice on contraceptives and emotional impact) to the infamous Kama-Sutra.
Just be confident. I'm not saying that by being confident you'll succeed, I'm just saying that you will be better off whether you fail or not because you will be able to learn from what has happened. And, above all, you'll be able to walk into your next relationship (or continue this one) a better person.
2007-02-21 03:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by vengerofthelight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt like you because you arent ready/ dont want sex right know. Then he is not worth it. I made the mistake of having sex because i really liked the guy and now alot of guys dont want anything to do with me.
2007-02-21 11:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all,this girlfriend of yours must not be much of a friend or else she wouldn,t have gone to his house,knowing you were having a relationship with him..I say dump em both>>>
2007-02-21 11:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by hancevh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with him. sounds like your friend is a... well... s1ut. If they didn't have a deep relationship, they just sleep together, then she won't care, and your guy won't be thinking about her. If they have sleep together many times, and have dated, I'd say watch out for signs he still likes her.. he might be using you.
2007-02-21 19:37:07 · answer #4 · answered by ifyoulovehim, t e l l him<3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex with the guy your friend had sex with? No, you don't wanna go there.
2007-02-21 12:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by breezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry If you 2 click then you click,if not go your own way.
2007-02-21 11:53:06 · answer #6 · answered by Goodfellar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋