Ok So I met my BF about 11 months ago and honestly we both hit it off wonderfully. He was set to leave for the navy 1 month later and we both fell in love.It was summer and we had the best times. Life was perfect! We are both so deeply religous and believe in god with are whole hearts. I honestly believe he is my angel because about 4 months before we met I guess you would say I was a lost soul I befriended people who partied and my family was torn apart from divorce because my dad cheated. I couldnt be alone and had to have a b/f amd I would feel obligated to have sex with them. But they never worked out no one felt right. They all cared about me and were hurt. but u kno the feelings werent there. Thats when i found god. I took my self away from that scene and I prayed for someone good to come into my life. Enter my now B/F. He had only been w/ 2 people and I was afraid if he knew how many i had been with he would think that is who I am. But I was a changed person! ...to be continued.
2007-02-21 03:26:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was never going to give it up to someone I wasnt truley in love with. So I kept it away from him. I didn't think it was that important to tell him everyone I had been with. That was my personaly business. I had been tested and was clean. But he was smart and didn't belive me and 6 months I kept from him 2 other people. Untill I was consumed with guilt and confessed to him the truth. it was the worst experince ever. He broke up with me and I was hurt. I understood I did it to my self. why couldnt I have been honest from the beginning? I was so much in euphoria to have him in my life I was afraid of losing him if he thought I was someone I wasnt anymore. Well he forgave me. and he are still very much in love but he has never been the same I am always honest with him now. I have never cheated or even flirted, the very idea of doing that makes me sick to my stomache i truely deeply love him. I know he loves me but he isnt quite him self he is very bitter now. I need help please!
2007-02-21 03:33:43 · update #1
Oh and two major details he stayed from the navy for me and its now been 10 months we have been together!!
2007-02-21 03:35:06 · update #2
You found god? Where is he? I've never seen him.
2007-02-21 03:30:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's as deeply religious as you say, he will forgive your past indiscretions, so long as they stay in the past, just as you will forgive his past.
And if you're both truly religious... that will mean you're not having sex with each other and are waiting from here on out for marriage, right?
2007-02-21 11:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats good that you found God now you just have to stay with him!
2007-02-21 11:35:51 · answer #3 · answered by jellybelly94 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your love sounds strong,he will overlook your past.you should too.keep loving and live with this new love,you sound like you found yourself-and think about it-you got 2 new friends out of it..
Good Luck
2007-02-21 11:34:23 · answer #4 · answered by BaDonkaDonk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋