2007-02-21 03:26:52 · 10 answers · asked by coco 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once it is said, you can't take it back and don't let him get away with it now as it only gets worse. If this is the first time it has ever happened and you want to work it out, set some ground rules that you both must follow during an argument...one might be it either of you it to the point of exploding, agree to walk away and cool off before trying to discuss whatever the issue is any further.
My ex used explode then to say horrible things to me in the heat of an argument then a half hour later act like nothing was wrong that saying, sorry, didn't mean it, just was mad and wanted to hurt you at the time, but now I am over it and you should be too.
I wasn't, I didn't get over it and after 7 years of trying to repeatedly, divorced him as it got to the point that the things I said back to him, I meant, I did not like the person I was turning into or the example I was setting for my son to try to cope with the dysfunctional situation anymore.
2007-02-21 03:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i once had a boyfriend like that well actually a few. listen honey DUMP him because its only going to get worse. I finally found a guy that doesn't do that. you might actually think u love this person. He doesn't love u even if he cries to you and tells you he is sorry 4 saying those bad things he doesn't mean that or he would've never said them bad things.
2007-02-21 11:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by THICKNESS 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most people have; the only case I can think of where this wouldn't happen is if the argument in question ended the relationship.
2007-02-21 11:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes lots of times i have been called some really hurtful things but hears some advice if this is always happing and he is always saying sorry he dosent mean otherwise he wouldnt keep doing it so if thats how it is the i'd get while i can other wise dont worry bout some ppl just say things they dont mean im sure you have at one time or another and he did say sorry so dont hold it aginst him
2007-02-21 11:33:41 · answer #4 · answered by lilsmokinj6969 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have. To be honest when you say those things you usually mean them but aplogize later because it was the wrong thing to say. If its in his head to say to you when he is heated it probably means that he is telling the truth on how he feels. I guess it depends on what was said.
2007-02-21 11:31:23 · answer #5 · answered by lethalx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mine does that, and it still takes me awhile to get over it. He tries to say that I am the one with the problem, but how can you just snap out it when he is the one to say the hurtful things.
2007-02-21 11:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, he knows better...LOL! (We don't argue anyway...)
In all honesty, when you have an unconditional love and/or respect for someone, there is no way that even in your maddest moment, you could say something harmful. It just doesn't work that way.
2007-02-21 11:34:14 · answer #7 · answered by Chanel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if he was being funny about it and joking around..................... but for the most part I never joke around with a girl because they are way to emotional.
2007-02-21 11:29:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes in my 4 yr relationship with my kids dad...when he knew we were finally done he called me a fat whore...it really hurt me, as he had never said anything like that to me before...but it just made me realize i made the right decision to dump him...no one deserves to be talked to like that...good luck!!
2007-02-21 11:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by repodana 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes....my ex did that to me....but it was just because he was angry........he did apologize.......
2007-02-21 11:30:33 · answer #10 · answered by tiNkErBeLL 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋