my ex broke up with me like a month ago. I apoligized and everything and she just said she didnt want a boyfriend right now and just wanted to be friends. So after like a week i tryed to like talk to her but she wouldnt listen. So im pretty much over her, but i had to make a new myspace and its not on private so anyone can see it but yesterday she invited me as her freind on myspace.So i sent her a message{ How's it goin? whats up}. She's been online today b/c its said so on her myspace, but i havnt gotten a response yet. .what does this mean and what should my next move be?
2007-02-21 03:21:50 · 12 answers · asked by babyv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO not get over ecxited. If she is not talking to you on there than don't talk to her. She just added you. Could be for many different reasons. To be freinds or so you could see all the other people she talks to and get jealous. Trust me us women can have hidden motives. If she hasnt messaged you in about three days than message her. Tell her you have been really busy but you just wanted to say hi. Do not go and message her today. Do not look like you care.
2007-02-21 03:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by Miriah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her have her space, I ran into this same problem and have had many friends that have to. In my case she did something else with someone and cheated, by saying she didnt want anyone right now that was her way of saying Im sorry and its over. Let her go for now, he will she what she had and she'll be back. Girls are very confusing and they always think they need better and someone can give that to them in a night, let her amke her mistake and come back, it will be hard but if she is worth it you will forgive her, she needs to experience life and find out what not to do and then she will settle down, and get off myspace its not health for relationships cause its to much drama.
2007-02-21 11:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by molenz69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up and move on. If she wanted to be in a realtionship with you she would make it 100% clear. There would be no question. Sometimes people get on their myspace just to check thier stuff but dont have time to respons. Give her a few days to respond. If she doesn't its time to move on. Even if she does respond it doesn't mean shes willing to jump back in the relationship.
2007-02-21 11:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by ...Melissa... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she said she wants to be friends doesn't mean that she actually does. It is just a way to cushion a break up so maybe it doesn't hurt the other person as much.
Is she acting like she wants to be your friend? No.
I suggest you don't make a next move. If she wants to be your friend, she knows how to get a hold of you.
2007-02-21 11:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by Go Bears! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should wait because she still might send you something back because it either means that she just wanted to see what you've been doing and didn't want to talk to you or she just hasn't gotten back to you yet but if she doesnt send you something back don't send her anything back because you'll just seem like a stalker.
2007-02-21 11:29:44 · answer #5 · answered by jellybelly94 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that ur ex still secretly likes u but doesnt want to make it obvious to u; ur next move is to talk to her but DONT go anywhere near the topic of dating again until shes had time to get over her mistake
2007-02-21 11:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by Loverboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take things slow and not expect things to move so fast.
Remember, she was the one who ended the relationship, so she might be a little hesitant to talk so quickly and freely with you so soon.
Give her time and dont expect anything.
2007-02-21 11:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ist of all your next move should be to tell her how beautiful ,wonderful,intelligent,witty,adorable,sensational,sexual,comical,humble,joyous,addictive,perseptive,charming, she is.... should I go on? THEN>>>>> since she doesn't have a MY space account,proceed to call her at home!! She probably doesn;t know how to get a hold of you..
2007-02-21 11:49:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say forget her and move on. Unless you want to continue playing some little game of hers.
2007-02-21 11:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by jbug742 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said you are over her, then wahts the prob?
maybe she didn't have time to write you back yet. if she added you as a friend then she still wants you in her life. (maybe as a friend or maybe something more than that)
2007-02-21 11:28:39 · answer #10 · answered by Shana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋