he wants me to actually do some bedroom action?
any idea's?
(i was with the same person for 4years, and felt at ease tryings out, iv been in a mess today, trying to think of excuses to put it off. its got to be done, so any help, email me or jot it down on here!)
any help would be great!
Thank you!
luv the stressed out gem
2007-02-21 03:17:33 · 0 answers · asked by geminially 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We need women to feed our ego. We need you to make us think that no other man can even come close. My suggestion to you is this:
He may expect sex tonight in the usual way, at the usual time, so
tonight attack him first, flirt a little and then be spontaneous. Pick a moment when he doesnt expect it. Then spend a little more time pleasing him, then when the time is right, tell him you need it NOW!!
Women don't realize that it is a mental experience for men as well ( though not like a women)
What will happen if you follow my advice is you will make him feel wanted and needed. This is very important to men. We need to know that we are "The Man".
This may seem like a simple or boring thing to do but when men are made to think we are a sex god and you cant wait to have us thats the best sex ever!!
2007-02-21 03:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by trust me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, if you're not comfortable having sex with your man, don't do it. If he really loves you, he'll understand (assuming that you explain it to him, of course). If he doesn't love you, he doesn't deserve to have sex with you, anyway. The caveat here is that you do have to explain yourself -- preferably in the clear terms that you'd use to talk it out with other women rather than the hints and subtext that most women use with men (I can't stress enough that we really don't understand that -- it's a language barrier, not insensitivity).
Now, if you truly are ready to do this, all you really have to do is something that you've never done before. I can't tell you what that is without knowing what you've already done, but you know. The best part is, if you pick the new trick it's guaranteed to be something that you're OK with (which means you don't risk frustrating him by rejecting his idea). If you need ideas Redbook and Cosmopolitan have some good ones, and archives of the sex & relationship articles are available online.
There is something even better than tricks that never fails to impress a man in bed, though; real enthusiasm. If you can convey to your man that you passionately desire him and enjoy sex with him, he'll be impressed even if you don't use any advanced sexual technique. If you can muster up that kind of enthusiasm, you're golden. If not, nothing that we suggest here is likely to help.
2007-02-21 03:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you have to perform but really don't feel like too much gymnastic activity, and also want to get it over and done with fairly quickly (heck, all us girls know what this is like, sometimes you just want to speed it up and relax afterwards), then the best thing is to do a 'special' blow-jb. So you get a cup of tea and also a cold drink with ice-cubes and put them by the bed. Now, take a swig of tea, take him in your mouth. Then, take an icecube in your mouth, take your man in your mouth. The contrast of hot and cold will drive him CRAZY ... truly, it works, you really won't have to do much at all but occasionally stop and sip some hot tea or take another ice-cube into your mouth and swill it around while you are pleasuring him.
He will be over and done with in no time at all, and will think you are just WONDERFUL! He will also love you forever, since b-jobs like this are few and far between.
Good luck, hope it helps!
2007-02-21 03:46:19 · answer #3 · answered by gorgeousfluffpot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever seen the "Don't go breaking my heart" music video by Elton John and Kiki Dee? In that video Kiki wears a bright pink set of dungarees, if you can pull that look off in the bedroom I'm sure your man will love you! Does it for me every time!
2007-02-21 03:23:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take control. Do all the work. I mean everything!!!!
I dated this one girl who used to lightly pinch my ball sack. not the balls but just the skin. Not a little bit of skin but enough to fit between her thumb and fingers. It is amazing. Im not joking.
2007-02-21 03:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by Stuey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he would like and then do it. Depends on how adventurous you really are and if there are some things you would rather not do at all. Follow your instincts girl!!
2007-02-21 03:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by andy muso 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rub the taint (area between the balls and the anus) you should be able to feel the penis extend underneath the balls (rub it hard, it won't break!) if he is really adventurous, you could drop a sinker, but make sure to do this slowly and gently
2007-02-21 03:23:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a good long massage Then let him do it to you.
Make him wait & resist him for as long as possible then have mad passionate sex.
Swallow it as it is good for your complexion
2007-02-21 03:24:12 · answer #8 · answered by ANDREW H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tie him up and tease him before jumping to sex. Blindfold him to add extra excitement!!!!
2007-02-21 03:26:57 · answer #9 · answered by tiemetight814 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and he loves you give him what he wants (after his shower of course)
2007-02-21 03:26:13 · answer #10 · answered by Janet C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋