my ex boyfriend, he dumped me for WRONG reason!! he saw me kissed another guy.. which it NOT true!! he grabbed me and kissed me! i tried to explain everything to him but he won't let me explain.. so should i move on or what?
2007-02-21 03:07:16 · 9 answers · asked by bunnielover 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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Perception is everything. The point that your boyfriend is making is that you shouldn't have put yourself in the position of being kissed.
Dangerous territory there.
If your boyfriend is mature about the situation, he'll take you back once he calms down.
If he doesn't, then that means he feels you violated his trust.
Nothing you can do at that point, but learn from it.
Good luck!
2007-02-21 03:12:09 · answer #1 · answered by HottNikkels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has an email address write him or mail him a letter if he won't talk to you in person or on the phone. if you have to give him some time and then try to contact him. Make him understand that it wasn't your fault. If he still doesn't believe you after that then move on. Good luck!
2007-02-21 11:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, think about this for a minute. If he is so unreasonable (and loves you so little) that he won't let you explain, why on earth would you want him back??? Move on, you deserve better.
2007-02-21 11:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can explain it till your blue in the face and he won't trust you. Even if he 'forgives' you he will always have it in the back of his head and be insecure about it. Just move on.
2007-02-21 11:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by Wiseyngsoul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, hmmm.... no one has ever kissed me without me letting them. Are you sorry it happened or just sorry you got caught? You had to be pretty close to him in the first place for him to be able to "sneak" a kiss in... rule of thumb, arms length away!
2007-02-21 11:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by Meezer Kitteez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya that sucks when you get force kissed and your to drunk to push the girl away, forget it theres no explaination... Not even the "but i was drunk, and she kissed me" excuse works.
2007-02-21 11:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u like the guy that kissed u then u should just go out with him especially if your xbf isnt going 2 sit down and talk about it!!!!
2007-02-21 11:15:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE CAN BE A STRANGE THING,but accusing you of something you had no control over-is wrong,if he is so quick to accuse you of this-what is next?do yourself a favor and move on.If he apologizes,accept-but still move on.
good luck.
2007-02-21 11:14:11 · answer #8 · answered by BaDonkaDonk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmmm interesting..,....why were you in the situation to be kissed by another man?
you hurt your BF pride......cheating is one of the worst things to do to a guy......even if it was unintentional
2007-02-21 11:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by McRach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋