I usually make a good impression on a girl. She ll laugh and giggle a lot. Im tuned to having a balanced conversation...where the girl nor I will talk too much and bore the other. I show assertiveness...self confidence....and most of the time they seem like they like me. For example...this girl I met at the club not to long ago ....we hit it off reali well...we kissed...and I called her a week later....and we talked for 2 hours! Time just flew by. And she said ok ...ILL CALL U TOMORROW. And she doesnt....and then I call her back a couple days....left a message...and she doesnt call back =(. Or this other girl the I met thru a friend...we had such a good time at a club/bar thing....and when we walked out she held my arm and laid her head on my shoulder. She kept asking about me. And I called a week later....she said HEY!LETS HANG OUT TOMMROOW! ILL CALL U ...OR U CALL ME OK? so.I call her....didnt leave a msg this time(thought I would do this differently) and she doesnt call bak!
2007-02-21 03:05:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ive waited for 3 days to call sometimes...and that still ends up being the same thing. PLz people...tell me what am I doing wrong?
2007-02-21 03:07:27 · update #1
OK OK...let me say...I am not looking for a relationship either. I just wanna BANG and perhaps b friends too. So u think I should just go for asking for sex at the club already?
2007-02-21 03:25:27 · update #2
OK first off chick from the club usually just want to get laid.. nothing more that is not the place to find a lasting relationship. secondly :
GIRLS put you into 1 of 2 categories when they first meet you. This is potential lover or frined now if you talk to a gilr for to long and do not progress the situation ie at the club and walk off without taking her to bed you just got put under frineds that she isnt gonna call back. This sounds brutal but girls want a guy that can stand up and take what they want because at the club scene where you seem to be picking up all the girls everything is judged by looks and lust and infatuation if you do not persue that in the moment its likely to not come back. If you want girls that you can meet and then call later, go somewhere that is your hobby ie the ski hill ok you meet a chick there walla you both like skiing thats one more reason to get back together and it was not purely based on sex..
well hope this helped!
2007-02-21 03:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by tobosahge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing nothing wrong expect try to find you some girls that are not club hangers. These girls apparently have other hang-ups and don't have time and will accept or call you when they have the time. There are some better girls out there and you just go and get them.
2007-02-21 03:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find one that you really care about, you'll call the very next day after the date. That's what women want - not a week later.
2007-02-21 03:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh. i'm unsure... my wager is that she's basically being strange. a reason 4 her 2 ignore approximately u.. did u say something strange 2 her? cuz if u did, that could rather set a female off. sorry! sturdy luck! :)
2016-09-29 10:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls want their boy friend to be something special than some one else. So, you know about the girl's nature i.e she's rude or soft and behave accordingly.
2007-02-21 03:16:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING, just be urself the right girl will come along
2007-02-21 03:13:56 · answer #6 · answered by joddie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just not the right women I guess dude
2007-02-21 03:10:52 · answer #7 · answered by BexarClaw03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋