my boyfriend does or did drugs what should i do?

Question

should i confront him and say i don't want to go out with you out with you anymore or should i wait and see wat time tells. i haven't spoke to him since august last year and don't acyually no weather he still does please help

Answer 1

if you haven't spoken to your boyfriend since august i think you can assume your relationship is over anyway.

Answer 2

well ok first of all if u avn't tlked 2 him since last August then it certainly wudn't hurt tlking 2 him.
second of all find out where he is at is he still doing drugs nd if so mke him make a descion wats more important 2 him the drugs or u . if he still cares about u then he's already givn up da drugs nd if hes still on da drugs then he'd wud b able 2 give them up 4 u. but if da ans is he cares more about drugs then dump him.
just remember every1 deserves a second chance but make sure u don't end up taking the drugs urself.

Answer 3

well i had a step son who really got in with the wrong crowd But never the less got in to drugs glue sniffing, you sound like a seemly respectable girl and you can tell weather a person is on drugs it smells rancid there complexion looks disgusting spotty and in bad cases slow reactions if in doubt love get rid don't sell your self short, it's an addiction and the type iv met normally cant speak the truth any way sounds like a waist of time to me,

Answer 4

Do you really want to live in his world, or do you want to better yourself? You should trust your friends. If you have to wonder what he's doing, then you don't trust him. Move on. Anyone who does drugs is hurting himself. He can only stop if he wants to. He can't stop because you tell him to. If you stay in this relationship, you'll end up changing yourself and not for the better. I know. I've been there. Choose friends who are people who you want to be like. Don't hang with people who you want to change. It never works. They will change you instead.

Answer 5

Seems to me that if you haven't spoken to him since last August he is no longer your boyfriend, and more of a 'casual acquaintance'. If he is still using drugs, and you absolutely cannot tolerate that behavior, drop him. Fast.

Answer 6

If he does drugs then staying away is a good thing cause you surely do not want to get caught up in the system. Shoud you decide to go back with him do not do the drug things and encourage him to stop.

Answer 7

I doubt you are classed as boyfriend or girlfriend if you havent spoken since last august! Therefore it isnt a problem anymore is it?

Answer 8

everyone needs a second chance but if he is still on drugs he is not ready for his i used to be hooked big time and it took a lot of guts (and a losing a friend to them )for me to stop but make sure he stop now before its too l8 and he might need something to hold onto(you) but dont get too close stay at a distance just so he know what waiting for him when he is clean

Answer 9

You haven't spoken to him since August? I'd say you really have nothing to worry about here, it's over sister.

Answer 10

I suggest that you dump him at the end of July but don't see or speak to him until then. Thqat will be around about a year.

Answer 11

I think you should talk to him about it if it bothers you, let him know that. Personally I would not be dating him if he did drugs, because they usually always end up wasting all their money on it, and almost all their time trying to get it. But that's your decision. Good luck.