and how do i know that he thinks i am too and not just because he says i am? how would u guys show it? need ur opinions...thanks!
2007-02-21 03:02:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1) Don't pay attention to how he's showing it. It's great if he thinks you two are going to end in marriage, but the reality of the situation is that you can't base your feelings just off how he feels.
2) The BEST thing to do is not concentrate on marriage. It sounds like you're still in high school, meaning right now having a boyfriend is great but a fiance? Not so great. Just concentrate on making your relationship even stronger than before. Don't jump ahead of today by thinking that it's important to know whether or not you'll marry this kid. It's not that important. What is important is living in the moment and just enjoy life.
2007-02-21 03:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably you will know the answer yourself. If a guy is deeply in love with a girl, he will always be by her side whenever he needs her.
If she is upset, he can tell straight away in the look at the eyes, the facial expressions and her body languages and he will console her and make her happy and smile again.
He will always give her encouragements and lift up her spirits whenever she got a scolding from someone.
The only guy who will put up with all your flaws and turn a blind eye to them.
Someone who will not take his eyes off you and always care for you no matter what happen to you. This guy will not control you and will give you total freedom of making your choice and decision and will give his opinion if you ask him.
I think these are the qualities of THE one that most girls are looking for.
2007-02-21 03:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by warrax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's the one, you just know it. You shouldn't have to ask people that don't know you if your man is THE one. Now, I wouldn't go rush off and get married if I was you, make sure you think about everything first and you are together for a while before taking the plunge, especially if you are both young. Cause when you're young and you get married, you soon realize that you didn't have time to be young and unmarried and lots of people regret that, then they end up getting divorced too.
2007-02-21 03:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he treat you like you should be? Does he spend time with you and not put you on the sideline? Does he have a job, goals, etc? Does he expect more from you than you do from him? Is he your best friend? I made a list of all the qualities I wanted in a man and did not settle until my list was complete... expect the best for yourself and don't just settle for him b/c you think you are in love. Sex fades, you have to be able to imagine yourself with him in 50 years when you are both old and conversation is the only thing you have left! Good Luck!
2007-02-21 03:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by Meezer Kitteez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never really know.. It always feels like it in the beginnng....but then the work begins! If you both feel the same way, share similar life goals, values and have mutual respect for each other, there's a good chance he could be the one..
2007-02-21 03:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you will never know that he is the one, unless you give him a chance. but ask yourself these questions:
do i feel comfortable when i am with him?
can i act like a fool in front of him and not be totally embarrased?
does he make me feel good about myself?
does he encourage me to go for what i want?
2007-02-21 03:08:07 · answer #6 · answered by i don't know 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really want us to tell you if he is the one. Might I suggest if you are asking internet strangers that he's probably not?
2007-02-21 03:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's The One if he can do all crazy slow-motion kung-fu.
2007-02-21 03:05:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ask strangers if your boyfriend is the one, then he isn't.
2007-02-21 03:07:14 · answer #9 · answered by TheTCB71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just know! you dont have to ask "how do I know"
2007-02-21 03:05:06 · answer #10 · answered by R L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋