Well heres the story.
Im 11 and shes 10 Me and this girl met at both of our brothers scoccer game cause they were on the same team. We realy like eachother but we live in other towns(one town apart) and so i asked her out. We didnt tell our parents we still havent. Then one night we had our first kiss. About a month later it wosent working out because we lived away from eachother so we broke up. I still want to go out with her but if i tell my and her parents they might enbarss us. Plus it will be like 2 or 3 years til we are in the same school wat should i do. Please help ill offer points
2007-02-21 03:00:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hehehe. Puppy Love!!! We'll you might want to call her and ask her out again. Since you really like her, then find ways that both of you ca meet. I think it is alright to tell it to your parents, nothing to worry about or be ashamed of.
2007-02-21 03:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At age 10 and 11 you are way too young to be dating. In fact what you were doing probably was not dating but playing at dating.
It is OK to tell your parents. Not sure what "enbarss" means. If it is "embarrass" then they are unlikely to do that and if they did it wouldn't really matter. They'll probably think what you were doing was really sweet. In fact it is very important that you tell your parents and you should also tell them that you have sought advice on the internet.
Thre is no reason why you can't have a friend or playmate who is a girl. A friend is someone you like being with after all. If you told your parents that you had made a new friend at football and she is your girlfriend, they would probably help you spend time together. She's the sister of your brother's teammate so not some completely wierd stranger. Just don't attempt to mate with your friend. That won't be legal for quite a few years yet and at your age could cause injury.
Don't forget to tell your parents about all this. They love you and are here to help you. Especially they are here to help you avoid disaster and girlfriends can often lead to disaster if you are young, inexperienced and don't take advice. They were a successful boyfriend/girlfriend once so will know what they are talking about on that subject. Whatever they decide to do will be best for you.
2007-02-21 11:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by lawomicron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd keep in touch with her... Keep this girl as a good friend and when you are in the same school (in a few years) then decide if you want to "see" her again as a "couple." Patience... it will be worth the wait! Have fun & don't make this too serious too soon! Life is about having FUN!
And yes, I am old enough to be your mother & I could have freaked out on you for being so young that you shouldn't be thinking about such things... But, you are - and so therefore I thought about this before I wrote my response.
2007-02-21 11:07:00 · answer #3 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything your way to young for a relationship
you should be orried about making friends with guys first
becaus ein reality there is no way that would work and where do you plan on taking the relationship?
no where because you ant even have meaningless sex
might as well just stay friends and dont worry about the dating scene. Guys that started dating that young as well as girls that I know always feel they have to be in a relationship. obviously you like girls and think they are attractive when you are young but I started actually dating and having real feelings for girls when I was 16 and I am not dependent or anything and girls really like that
2007-02-21 11:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by tobosahge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her you will learn how to deal with your parents because I'm sure your parents will still embarres you no matter who you are going out with so I think you should try to mke it work with this girl. I'm sure you guys could have a long distance relationsship I mean It's a hard thing to do but If you really like her you'll be able to work it out.
2007-02-21 11:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still very young so I am sure that you will meet many people to come in the future. I wouldn't worry about it if you are only 11 years old.
2007-02-21 11:04:29 · answer #6 · answered by amberlynne_2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way way way too young to be thinking boyfriend and girlfriend. Please, if you think you are mature enough and like this girl...give her space to be 10.....
Just think if you like her and be with her for 10 years...till both of you are tired...then you will both be only 20 and 21....no good, must worry about other things in life, like school and like growing up and the romance deal will come in time.
2007-02-21 11:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding?? Don't even worry about this. If it's meant to be, you'll find out in the years to come. For now, just enjoy being a kid and leave puppy love to at least your teen years.
2007-02-21 11:17:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you want to be with her and she feels the same then go for it. Although you are a bit young to be dating and to be worried about that kinda stuff. In any case it's your life do what makes you happy.
2007-02-21 11:04:32 · answer #9 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, there are 10 and 11 year olds posting on here?!?!
2007-02-21 11:04:09 · answer #10 · answered by Mullet Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋