Obviously, I don't want to look in bars or clubs. I already belong to a wonderful singles small group at my church. I am in my late 20's & enjoy most things others enjoy. Where should I look? What should I try?
2007-02-21 02:46:19 · 20 answers · asked by Gina A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off i suggest opening your mind, by only accepting Christians into your life you are cutting your chances of finding the person for you in half at least. I have no religion but go out with a Catholic all people should b able to get on in this world of suffering without thinking of religion. You don't have to be religious to be a good person.
OK moving on:
If you are already in a singles club then you've kinda covered all, i will be the first to agree with you that its pretty poor state of affairs where the only places to meet nice single folk is in your local drinking hole... why is it we have to associate drink with enjoyment, i certainly don't.
What about your work? take an evening course?, new sports hobbies? Double dates, Blind Dates, Speed dating, and if it really comes to it Personal Ad? lol but seriously i know people who that has worked for.
But again you have to be comfortable with being single before you are likely to find the man for you.
Love Chris
Cheers
xx xx
2007-02-21 03:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont look i'm the same way i have the same values as you do
but let it happen if u rush these things then it wont be right it will be you just wanting to get into something for the sake of not being alone
i know ur in your late 20's but trust in god and he will get u there
i mean isin't that a little of what having faith is waiting for an anwser in return
so yeah been there kinda still am in a way
so well good luck ok and just have faith
or as i say just believe...
2007-02-21 02:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by rm4real 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dear Christian Woman,
Although you have to be extremely careful, I met a wonderful man on a singles website. We emailed and then spoke on the phone for several months before we actually met in person. I would highly advise always doing a background check before you actually meet someone. Also suggest you meet in a public place. Just can't be too careful these days. Good Luck!
2007-02-21 02:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by PRIVATEDANCER 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There are also Christian dating services. Look on the internet for them. You could also try to find like-minded people by joining other similar groups - reading groups at your local book store, athletic clubs (volleyball is a lot of fun), volunteer at hospitals, animals shelters. There are lots of ways to meet other people, you may make a lot of new friends. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-02-21 02:50:17 · answer #4 · answered by tersey562 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Believe it or not there are a lot of great guys out there looking for the exact qualities you have. For one you are a christian woman. Next you are probably mature because of your age. I for one wish I would have waited a little bit longer to marry. I love my wife but she lacks your values. For one too young, she told me this after four months of marriage and of this four months I have been deployed to afghanistan. Next she claims to be a christian but to me christian means christ like. We were friends for a year, and then asked me to marry her. I am 26 about to turn 27 and I of course said no at first because my heart told me she was young and unsure who she was. Don't get me wrong she impressed me on how smart and idependent she really is but her age really came out. After four months of my deployment she finally broke down and said she can't do it any longer. I come home in three weeks too. She doesn't care. She wants to seperate and of course I am hurt but weirdly glad too. I am glad that it wasn't further down the line. I will come home for about 6 months and then come back here for another 8 months which will be my last deployment. I am sorry this is so long but I havn't had anyone to talk to. I am not trying to meet anyone other than a friend if you would like to e-mail me you can. My account is set up to not allow e-mails but if you want you can. My e-mail address is ghostmeracer@yahoo.com
Well good luck someone is out there.
2007-02-21 03:04:28 · answer #5 · answered by david r 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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try joining clubs at your libary or other clubs of things you like to do. also most cities have christian dances ect. your local newspaper should advertise these. if all fails you could try putting up an ad. I did all of these and got wonderful responses. good luck and I will pray for you.
2007-02-21 02:51:42 · answer #8 · answered by c.wamack 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Girl, you better start visiting other churches. There are some fine christian brothers in them! What type of man you want is based on where you look. Branch out and start visiting. Be confident, and God will send you what you need when you need it. (him)
2007-02-21 02:50:55 · answer #9 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Keep attending functions with your group from church, eventually, you will meet another Christian man, just be patient.
2007-02-21 02:49:14 · answer #10 · answered by grandm 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋