ive been incontact with a really good male friend for a year now. he came over to england last week from australia. while he was here we talked about a long distance relationship, he said he could see himself buying me a ticket over there and finding me a job!!! i wasnt to sure, but after i had thought about it i looked into the possibilty and then asked him again if hed mind me staying with him while i got myself sorted etc. this happend on monday afternoon, i havent heard from hime since!!! is he just playing or is it because he has no signal down at his moms like he said!!
2007-02-21 02:43:46 · 12 answers · asked by cheeky lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him the benefit of the doubt and wait a few more days.
GL
2007-02-21 02:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he's playing any games, but he may be scared at the reality of what you are getting in to. I bet he really doesn't have signal, just like he said, but that's good cuz it gives him time to think about what's going on. You should take advantage of this time also. Are you positive you want to make this big move for a guy? Just be sure to have it all thought out and know what you want. It's a big deal........so let both him and yourself take a little time. If it's love then it won't go away, and there is no need to rush the move to Australia. At any rate, good luck =]
2007-02-21 03:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by *apes* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheeky,
It's hard to tell from what you said being we don't know this guy. What ever impressions you get about him, you must be right.
What I want to say is, I don't favor "long distance' relationships, cuz it doesn't really work being that 2 people are away from each other too long and contact is important on ALL levels when you have a relationship.
The other possibility is, maybe your Friend doesn't want a "live-in" situation yet and maybe he's "mulling" that over but I'm sure he'll call you. Try to be patient!
2007-02-21 02:55:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might have panicked him. There is a lot you need to know about each other before a big commitment like this,also you would be wise to have enough money to get home if you want to. I think he was considering it for more in the future and if he is living with his Mum it will not be just his decision. When a relationship is a long distant one like this a lot of it is how we make it in our heads and not necessarily how it will be in real life,
Have a good think about what you want out of life make a list,think about your friends here and what you will be leaving behind your own parents and relations , it seems like you still have a lot to learn about your friend . Hope all goes well in your life don't rush into anything it always takes longer to get out xx
2007-02-21 02:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by lucy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know. he could have been really busy the past few days, avoiding you, or maybe something else happens. Thats the problem with long distance is that the only ways of communication are phone and internet and people can avoid using those if they dont want to talk to a certain person. If he doesnt respond for over 1-2weeks, id try to contact him in person if its important to you.
2007-02-21 02:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only wednesday, its barely been 48 hours! give the bloke a chance!
And hang on, he said he gets no signal down at his moms... I think we have our answer. End of the day, he offered a job and a ticket over there, if he's committed to doing that, staying with you for a while is hardly a big deal (flights to OZ are expensive!)
I think you are worrying too much, based on what you have said.
2007-02-21 02:52:21 · answer #6 · answered by Caffeine Fiend 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 12:10:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably on the case, sorting things out this very minute so he can surprise you when he gets back in touch. Trust him.
2007-02-21 02:52:29 · answer #8 · answered by Serious Dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's really your friend, then trust what he told you. I would give him the benefit of the doubt, for now. Be patient, and see if he contacts you.
2007-02-21 02:47:55 · answer #9 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just giv him some time he mite be sorting things out and making sure it is ok for you to go over !! just give him some time !!!
2007-02-21 03:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋