2007-02-21 02:42:25 · 18 answers · asked by McRach 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Not a money tree, but people usually have something for their cards that usually contain money. I've seen wishing well's, decorative wedding mailboxes and birdcaged shaped containers for all of the cards. That way you will get all of your cash gifts. Instead of a money tree that won't go over well at all, do a dollar dance. Someone has a large hat or container to put bills in and everyone puts in some money in order to dance with the bride or the groom. Traditionally, you serve shots of peach schnapps and whiskey at the front of the line as well. Don't worry, people will sometimes put in a larger bill for the dollar dance. It's totally worth it and lots of fun, a great way to spend a few minutes one on one with all of your guests too!
2007-02-21 02:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by Tact is highly overrated 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Well love I don't think that it is that unusual actually. Nearly every wedding I have been to has had a wishing well. It is usually left open so people can either give $ into the wishing well or they can leave a gift on the table. Of course all of the etiquette nazi's will say 'how tacky" etc but I think it is just a sign of the times. Most people nowadays have lived out of home for awhile and usually with each other for at least a year (usually more) before marrying. So most people have all of the essentials anyway and people know that. Having a wishing well also reduces the stress and time some people invest in picking a gift for you - especially if they have no idea of your taste or what you actually want/need. I would go with the wishing well not the tree, more subtle and whimsical anyway. And secure. Let people have a choice, some people may already have the perfect gift or have been busy making it since they heard you set a date! lol! Also people respect your decision more if they know what you are going to spend the money on. Be it a honeymoon, or a special trip. Maybe for house renovations or maybe for a large household item. eg a chest freezer or a new lounge or a new bed! Where I come from we dont have gift registry. I think that they could be considered a bit rude and tacky too really.
2016-05-24 02:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest setting up a place to put cards. I have seen lovely antique brid cages that people place an envelope in so people get the idea, other wise a money tree seems a little tacky.
You can always do a money dance if you want where people pin money to the brides dress in order to dance during that time or with the bride...people seem to enjoy that.
2007-02-21 04:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's considered the norm to have a fancy, decorated box or cage for cards (presumably with money in them) on your gift table. Be sure to have someone responsible and trustworthy arranged in advance to keep an eye on it through the entire reception. You won't have time to do that and enjoy your guests. Nothing ruins your big day worse than having your gifts stolen by a friend or family member, and it's been known to happen.
2007-02-21 02:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by trai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends, are you expecting alot of cash gifts? (Some people/cultures have a policy of no boxed gifts) At my wedding we had a beautifully decorated box with an opening on the top that people slid the envelopes in right on the gift table for those that wanted to. Word of warning have someone you trust (and that is not likely to be drinking) keep an eye on it for you. Not that you don't trust your guests, but often people from the outside can walk into a reception unnoticed and if its a big reception they can walk out again with their arms loaded. Just a thought......
2007-02-21 02:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by Lovely Lady 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Totally tacky and unacceptable.
You can put out a box for people to put cards in. Normally cards contain money.
Putting out a money tree make the guests who have brought gifts feel then also have to put $$ on the tree.
2007-02-21 04:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by rickybobbi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really isn't acceptable to put out a money tree or do a dollar dance. People will already be giving you gifts and cards containing cash, to ask for more seems rude and greedy. Is it worth offending your guests to get a few more bucks? You can however put out one of those pretty boxes/birdcages to store the envelopes as you get them.
2007-02-21 06:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by MelB 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have not heard of a money tree at all. We did a money dance at my wedding. Everyone gets in line and has to pay (whatever they want to pay) to dance with either the bride or groom. We made around 400 dollars doing that.
2007-02-21 03:06:08 · answer #8 · answered by laney 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think so...Ive been to a couple of wedding that had them. It just depends if your wedding is more formal or fun...Also you can have a $1.00 or a honeymoon dance & if you dont know what that is...It is when guys have to pay $1.00 to have a dance with you. Ive seen that done at alot of wedding & its really cute when the little boys come up to you with a dollar wanting to dance :) I hope this helps! Have fun & Good Luck :)
2007-02-21 02:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by She is Beautiful! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends. some people will say its tacky and rude, but some wont. for me, if you're only inviting close friends, families and relatives, then i think it wont be rude to have one. but if you're having an extravagant wedding and your'e inviting people you dont even know, then they might think that its kinda rude to have one. coz why bother having an extravagant and big wedding when you're gonna be asking for money as gifts in return, right? if they see that you have a big wedding and you ask for money as gift, they might say you're cheap or something.
2007-02-21 03:08:34 · answer #10 · answered by Chelsea's Momi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋