ie if guys have lustful thoughts over a girl.
That girl has power over them as those guys will try and impress her.
Say with gifts, money, doing what she wants.
the more lustful she can make guys over her, the more power.
Hence advertising with girls using sexaulity to control guys into boyin gthings and getting a big commssion out of it.
Likewise lust and girls making themselves sexy is what enables them to find a husband or boyfriend or forfill their emotional sexaul needs by getting guys to see them as more then a friend.
The more sexy a girl is, the more choice she has over guys and the more second chances she has with guys to get them to form relatioships.
Likewise brothers and fathers hould think great... all the guys think she is a babe so she wont be lonley
2007-02-21 02:28:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
In regards stds and unwanted pregnancy see condoms and the pill combined.
in realtion to rape and molestation see self defence lessosn and guys being taught to respect girls regardless of how little they wear.
2007-02-21 02:29:23 · update #1
Girls are not forced to be sexaulised by the media they just get told by the media thats a way to get what they want.
ie a guy to be with and how to get more money .
Ie they can get a job as a teacher or 10 times as much as a pole dancer.
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If you don't see that the sex industry in the west is exploitive, you need to look at it a little.
I did some work in a pole dance bar... the girls just wanted more guys to come and give them all their money as guys are easy to manipulate into handing over cash and used to wear the club T shirts when out as it helped them to pull.
Ie girls like smoochies too.
Plus a comapny that makes stuff for playboy was the company that cared the most about its employees.
Any look at shows like porn week on Bravo ... reality show on real porn sets. You are clueless, just repeating what you have been told.
The girls see it as fun. with good pay, sure beats boring jobs.
What you are refering is the side to the industry that
2007-02-21 03:17:13 · update #2
Thats like sweat shop factories. The whole industry is not like that. Those are just dodgy operators where there is no regulation.
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going out with a guy and then he expects sex for taking you out. and you dont think that is odd?
Well if you were going out as mates why not pay your own way... A date is to see if you like each other and want to kiss or make out.
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Women are not sex toys. We are not here for your enjoyment. Sex or sexyness does not make a good relationship. All it does is create disrespect and rape. No one respects a sexy woman. All peope think about around her is sex. That is not respect. That is just basic primal instinct. It's animal, not human. Your argument disgusts me.
ACTUALLY MANY OF MY MATES ARE SEXY WOEMN AND THEY GUYS RESPECT THEM. JUST AS THEY FIND HER SEXY DOES NOT MEAN THEY DONT RESPECT HER. THATS JUST SEXSIT PEOPLE LIKE YOU.
tHE ONLY KIND INTO DISRESCT AND RAPE IS PEOPLE LIKE YOU.
MOST c SEX AS FUN TO SHAR
2007-02-21 03:20:40 · update #3
humans are animals. Sex is how we socialise togethe leading to love and affection and families.
OH AND WOMEN LIKE SEX TOO AND SEE GUYS AS SEXY>
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When you are lusting after this girl as you say do you even pay attention to her thoughts or intelligence or just her cup size.
Actually not either but both.
If no interest in a girl sexaully she is just a mate.
A guy may hang out with a intelligent friend but she will only be a freind unless he finds her sexy and he finds her sexy.
And no lust no marriage
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Yes women are exploited for their looks. If a woman is beautiful she is to work at remaining that way and forget an education.
Says who ... so you saying you cant be sexy and beautiful?
2007-02-21 03:24:06 · update #4
******************************The sex trade is like mining... Nice companies and 3rd world slave operations.
likewise comparing ben and jerries ice cream factory with staff entertainers with chinese weat shops where union members are executed...
Ie its not what done but how
2007-02-21 06:40:03 · update #5
You are correct. That is why we send our husbands out to earn a living while we stay home with family (well if a girl is pretty enough, she has worked this out). but sexuality goes beyond flesh. If you have ever had a really good love, you would know this power. Yet, you must also consider the jealousy of man. It is a competitive world for procreation. A "sexy" woman will always receive better offers than you can provide. So, it is better for a woman to only be sexy within her husband's room.
And I am not considering the white slave trade
2007-02-21 03:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When you are lusting after this girl as you say do you even pay attention to her thoughts or intelligence or just her cup size.
The most beautiful people in the world are not beautiful on the outside but on the inside.
The pressure to be beautiful kills women everyday. Women die after or during surgery to lose weight, change their face and cup size. Girls as young as 8 have shown signs of anorexia.
All religious test say that sexual relations are only to happen after marriage. For this would an intelligent man want to marry a woman at the same level as him intellectually or would he rather have an air head that is beautiful.
Yes women are exploited for their looks. If a woman is beautiful she is to work at remaining that way and forget an education. If the female were to wear more modest clothing and force the males to recognize them for the person they are and not the image they give they will have a more meaningful relationship and not one filled with lust.
If you marry for money the money will leave you.
If you marry for beauty it will fade
If you marry for status you will lose it
If you marry for piety and love God will be with you.
2007-02-21 10:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by Layla 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women are not sex toys. We are not here for your enjoyment. Sex or sexyness does not make a good relationship. All it does is create disrespect and rape. No one respects a sexy woman. All peope think about around her is sex. That is not respect. That is just basic primal instinct. It's animal, not human. Your argument disgusts me.
2007-02-21 10:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by Kharm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a female I have to say that what you are saying is right, and I really don't believe you are referring to the sex trade etc. It would be nice to get a guys attention with knowledge and the like but as most women know if you want their attention (and to keep it) you need to get your visible stuff right.
Its just the way that it is and its what gives us power.
2007-02-21 13:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by intelligentbutdizzy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because God wants us to foucs on Him and not on the flesh.
Galatians 5:16 This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh.
2007-02-21 10:32:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have pointed out is the double standard. The things you mention are not exploitation of the female, but of her male victims. However, the answers I see tend to focus on some male now preying on this poor, defenseless s.l.u.t. If you purposely use your looks and sexual appeal for manipulation of men, you can expect they will look to use and manipulate you. Its your choice.
2007-02-21 10:52:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the difference is that when girls are *forced* to be sexualized (through the media etc) then it is *not* the girl's particular choice and is therefore a form of exploitation.
2007-02-21 10:32:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are so full of cr*p! For a woman being sexy is the way she wants to be. If I want to empower I would wear power suits and not sexy revealing tops. Every woman likes to feel sexy and not necessarily for a man but for herself.
Get a life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-21 18:02:45 · answer #8 · answered by djdundalk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men do not have self restraint and the temptation is too great for them to overcome. So men should develop self restraint before being allowed in public.
2007-02-21 10:31:52 · answer #9 · answered by Tribble Macher 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being sexy doesn't have to mean being skanky!
That power of sexiness comes from self confidence, knowing you're beautiful inside and out, and not needing to show all your skin or be promiscuous to prove it.
2007-02-21 10:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by daisyk 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋