I am in her bridal party and will be bringing a guest. I'd like to give her something nice without going overboard since I'll already be spending a lot as a bridesmaid. About how much should I spend?
2007-02-21 02:18:20 · 10 answers · asked by EMG 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
When I was the maid of honor (with a guest), I spent $300 (check). When I am just a guest, I usually spend $100 for just me or $200 for both of us. But, I think $200 is sufficient for you and a guest.
I know it's a lot, but you know it's going to be expensive when you accept being a bridesmaid and you shouldn't scrimp on her gift just because it's been expensive!
Just remember, she'll do it for you one day!
2007-02-21 13:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by ms. teacher ft 3 · 89⤊ 185⤋
It seems like you might get even more confused by the answers, because everyone is telling you something different! A suit and tie with leather shoes is the proper attire for a wedding, so you are correct in your assumption of the dress code. In New York, where I live, the standard for weddings is to give $100 per person attending (meaning, if you bring a date, you should give $200, and only $100 if you go alone). Technically, that amount covers the cost of your food (that is how much wedding halls cost around here, $100 per head). If they are not very close friends, stick to $100, or maybe $75 if you live in a cheaper area. good luck!
2016-05-24 02:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't expect a wedding gift from my bridesmaids - they are giving me a gift by agreeing to stand up in my wedding and paying for their own dresses. In fact it's customary for the BRIDE to give YOU a gift as a way of thanks. However, if she is paying for your dress, shoes, jewelry, etc, then you should get her a gift. If you are paying, then a gift isn't necessary and is probably not expected. HOWEVER, if you are "close" friends, you can't put a dollar amount on that. Me being who I am, would probably give (or make) the bride a special gift anyway - but that is totally up to you.
2007-02-21 04:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by Brandy 6 · 237⤊ 15⤋
Two hundred dollars. This covers your meals and a small gift for them.
2007-02-21 02:49:09 · answer #4 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 31⤊ 57⤋
As a bride, I can honestly say that I only expect what my friends and family can afford. I know that some of my guest can't really afford anything, and that's fine with me. So I say just get her something from her registery that you can afford. trust me if your being a bridesmaid that's enough.
2007-02-21 02:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 190⤊ 19⤋
If she is a close friend, $125 and up is the way to go. Distant cousins can get away with giving $50 but more is truly better in this situation.
2007-02-21 02:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 36⤊ 46⤋
$100-$150
2007-02-21 02:26:21 · answer #7 · answered by Allen L 3 · 36⤊ 43⤋
You normally have to pay for the plate.... basically the cost of the meal. I normally give $100 per person so $200 for 2 people, it they are really close I normally chip in a little more like $250-300.
2007-02-21 02:24:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 54⤊ 56⤋
However much you feel is appropriate. A general rule of thumb is that you should spend about as much as it cost for both you and your date to eat/drink at the reception. This isn't a formal guideline, but it is one that most people use. I think about $100 or more would be appropriate for a close friend.
Keep in mind that what you pay as a bridesmaid has nothing to do with the wedding gift.
2007-02-21 02:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 86⤊ 21⤋
Where we live, its usually customary to spend around $100 for a close friend.
2007-02-21 02:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by FLmom3 6 · 32⤊ 24⤋