A boy proposes a girl for marriage and they both know they will get married..They indulge in pre-marital sex..Later the boy(who really loves the girl) fails to marry her due to unavoidable circumstances..In this situation which of the following possibility or conclusion is correct:
1.The boy has ditched her,if he wanted he could have married her at any cost.So,in short he played with her.
2.The boy loves the girl but there is something called destiny..so the boy should not be blamed.Also,marriage is not the only proof of his love.
Or any other conclusion?
2007-02-21 02:08:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S.*blamed!
2007-02-21 02:09:28 · update #1
If there are unavoidable circumstances that kept him from marrying her...like their parents moved them apart, etc....then neither is to blame. They should both just chalk up the experiences to life and then move on with fond memories.
2007-02-21 02:12:33 · answer #1 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the situation was unavoidable you should not be looking to place blame on anyone or each other for that matter. You truly love each other enough to have made a committment to get married??? That love should carry you both through this with the understanding that it was unavoidable and no one is to blame. Stop looking to point fingers, accept the situation and do what you need to do to move on.
2007-02-21 02:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by babeebluez73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What were the "unavoidable circumstances"??? How long after the sex did he ditch her? Many things are at play here not only the act itself. If he asked her to marry him, then pressured her for sex and then right away dumped her then I would say that he played with her....However we don't have all the facts so I can't say for sure he played with her....what does everyone else think?
2007-02-21 02:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by EV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truly is a man, then he will either marry her or at the very least make sure he is a viable part of the child's life. (That includes financially!)
I think if the guy is saying this is destiny or some crap like that, that he is full of it. He just wants to skip out on responsibility. He tasted the meal, now he wants to move onto the next buffet.
Don't let him get away with it!
2007-02-21 02:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in destiny, and without knowing what the "unavoidable circumstances" were, I couldn't judge.
2007-02-21 02:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the circumstance were unavoidable, then noone is to blame.
2007-02-21 02:11:35 · answer #6 · answered by Chris R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what the "unavoidable circumstances" are and whether they are just an excuse...........
Sounds like just and excuse, but you never know...
2007-02-21 02:14:55 · answer #7 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 12:09:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like one of those things that just happen....besides it was just sex.........nothing wrong with it as long as it was legal
2007-02-21 02:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First conclusion, he used her for sex!
2007-02-21 02:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋