I am so scared of hurting him. I am so scared of losing the person that I love.
I just do not want to go back to the old relationship now. It was bad. We have been together 6 years.
He thinks everything is fine with us.
I do not, out of all my family and friends, most of them think I should move on.
How do I do this? I do care for him, but do not feel the love I am looking for? I have tried telling him, I want to be friends but he keeps coming back and asking for one more chance.
This is his 3rd chance.
2007-02-21 02:00:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have actually answered your own question. You know what too do. 2nd 3rd and 4th chances change nothing. " He thinks everything is fine with us." Take it from a guy whose seen this in many other guy's, he won't change, and he either doesn't understand how you feel or doesn't care. Be careful though, it sounds like you may have a problem getting this guy to leave you alone. If he won't stop approaching you, think restraining order.
2007-02-21 02:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to have made up your mind already but this guy is not hearing you so the best thing to do is just stop talking to him, make excuses ( be busy) so you don't have to talk to him and maybe he will get the message. You know what they say "three strikes you are out" you have tried to make a go for it too many times and you can tell you are not in love with him and sometimes hurting someone feelings is what we end up doing when we are backed into a corner (pressured) to do things that do not make us happy. Good luck with your decision.
2007-02-21 10:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Peaches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel this strongly about not taking him back then don't. You cannot base your decision of giving him another chance just because of pity, this would not be fair to you nor him. Sounds as if you already have made the decision to move on, so do just that and leave the relationship you once had with him in the past where it belongs. Best of luck to you!
2007-02-21 10:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should just tell him straight up what you feel, trust me you'll feel better because if you continue with it all your doing is lying to him and thats were your really going to hurt himbut before you do that you should take some time for yourself and decide on what you want. but for sure tell him and good luck :)
2007-02-21 10:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by sexy_latina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to be ALONE for a while to figure out what you want!
2007-02-21 10:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by startwinkle05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just said you dont want to be with him and you want to move on...so DO it!
2007-02-21 10:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no and do what is best for you.
2007-02-21 10:07:48 · answer #7 · answered by selena d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋