but doesn't contact you to arrange "the date" for about 2mths and his excuse is that he has been busy. i don't know whether he is serious and i so want to tell him i am no longer interested but i don't know if i can coz i like he quite a lot. quys what do you think and girls what would you do. help
2007-02-21 02:00:00 · 17 answers · asked by snowflakes 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
2 months? No excuses for that. Stop waiting and get on with your life. Don't bother to tell him anything, as he clearly isn't going out of his way to keep things moving with you. Go out with other people. If he's interested, he'll get off his butt and try again. If he isn't, you won't waste anymore time on him.
2007-02-21 02:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by William 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see what you mean,he might not be serious but then on the other hand if his life is as busy as mine he could be genuine and time can pass very quickly at times. I asked a girl out befor christmas and had been trying to pluck up the courage for a long time.We work together and it's kind of delicate. I dont want things to be akward if her answers no, and all she said was "not this side of christmas". i'm waiting for her response,havent really had time to talk to her properly since
only you really know the situation. Lets face it the course of true love never run's smoothly,just go with your heart! good luck!!
I hope he turns out to be your true love!! x
2007-02-21 10:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He kept you hanging for 2 months-then expected you to jump when he called. He's a manipulator and a game player. What is there to like about a guy like that? A phone call,email,or text message would have taken just a minute or 2 to let you know he was still interested. Don't contact him or reply to him at all.
2007-02-21 10:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 2 months not being in contact with you I wouldn't give him a chance, even if your busy then it doesn't take a minute to text someone to see how they are.
2007-02-21 10:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by fairyb04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would pass on this one if says hes been too busy to call in 2 months then hes obviously not that keen is he.wait until you find someonne who will treat you with the respect you deserve, who will contact you when they say they are going to.best thing is to let him think you are not interested and if hes keen youl soon know ,if hes not simply move on.
2007-02-21 10:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give him the satsifaction of telling him. Just dont bother contacting him again. See how he likes it!! If he pesters to the begging stage, maybe give him one more chance. If he's ignorant before your first date, how would it be if you were in a relationship?
2007-02-21 10:02:56 · answer #6 · answered by Chazza xx Baby born 7/11/09 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Text him saying that he shud let u know how long u shud play hard-2-get....
Dump him if he doesnt respond with an immediate date.
2007-02-21 10:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by novembr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on the date, you'll be able to tell what he's all about from spending an evening together. Just be wary, he might be an ar*sehole.
2007-02-21 10:03:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it took him 2 months to call a arange a date he's not that intrestted in you and i'd tell him to get lost
2007-02-21 10:43:43 · answer #9 · answered by nat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he s not intrested i think or he s just gonna waste your time 2 months not gettin back to you think what he ll be like in the future
2007-02-21 10:04:35 · answer #10 · answered by angryguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋